hey guys im about to tell you my story it would really mean alot if you could help me out with getting a solution..... abt a year ago (2011) after i wrote my gr8 exams me and a friend decided to get our belly bottons pierced at another friends aunty without telling our parents because we knew how they would react and as you mo not all parents are the same well me and my mom are real close i didnt think it would be a really big issue...

 

3 months went by and 1day my mother came home from work while i was sleeping>she woke me up< and told me how i could do that to her blah blah blah an if i feel im big and wanna do what i want i should rather leave because everyone cant be big and make their own decisions..>i started crying,tears rolling down my face the heartache i felt that day was beyond repair till this day it still hurts<.. she never trusted me and told me inorder to regain her trust i should earn it, she knows that i wouldnt beable to survive without her because me and my dad dont really get along..

 

she told me to take out my belly ring and i did so and she threw it away. i would always bring up the topic about the belly ring like why i cant have it and she would just say because later i would regret it and when i am 21 i could do what i want,i really do not understand why it is such a big problem i mean she also has a nose ring but she doesnt want me to pierce me anywhere i jst have 1ae of holes in my ears and not because she wanted me to have them but because i got it as a birthday present when i was little.

 

september 2012 ahe told me that i have a choice between the belly ring and a blackberry>obviously i wanted both but i had to choose< i then told her the next day when we went to town that i want the belly ring i phoned the jewelers to find out how much it would cost. then my mothers told her friends daughter (28 years old) what she would take and she said the phone and she was like noooo you gonna take the phone why want a belly ring i was soooooooooooooo mad!!!!

 

they went to the mall and took the phone when we came home i started cutting me any my mother said i was mad but i really want a belly ring again i would abouy do everything to get it again no matter what its like i donyt no how to explain having a belly ring or piercing would mean the world to me i mean come on 21 what if i told live until im 21 im like only on grade 9 this year and im 14 years of age..please let me no if you have a solution to this i really need your help.... write back if you want a follow up or if you have a solution please....