My parents don't understand me!

The Girl wrote:

Hey guys! I found this site to write my problems with my parents. So let's start. I have nice parents i love them, but i think they don't understand me..i mean i'm 16 and they are always saying ( especially my mom) like when i make same problems she's always like: If you don't make your grades excellent on the finale of the year you gonna be grounded. And she's always yelling round the house just because of me, but i'm not doing anything...everything's bodering her...like i left the outside lights on..and with my father they're gonna yell at me...but i really forget to switch the lights off. Right now she's yelling me for the cat, why did i put the cat food on the outer ground, it gonna be greasy! They're always saying "grow up one again,your not little anymore..OMG i really don't know how to explain all this but they really don't understand me. I'm going on church chorus and if i wanna skip  class sometime, she;s gonna say: That's you job you have to go there ( cuz im studying high school musical) . So..i wanna sometimes to get out of the house cause they are sooooooooo boringgggg! They want  just to take my teen years off. To be grown up! omg im gonna kill my self really! Please help me...maybe im wrong but i cant stand it anymore. They're yelling about unnecessary things! So pls hepl! 

yo, i have the same problem... its like they really dont understand us... i just got yelled at because my parents are just mad... they dont even know what there mad at but im the only one here... i felt like killing myself too but come on bro, we both know that wouldnt resolve anything... they would probably like us being dead anyway... and i really can understand you saying they yell about unnecessary things because all parents are like that... one good thing about it is that when we are older we know how not to raise our kids

but talking to them will be hard!! i have the same problem and im tying to talk but is actually hard to talk yo parents like this they still wont understand.still i know we should keep trying.good luck.

They forget they were teens once

I have the same problem with my parents they never try to understand me i feel so lonely in this life my mom is so severe she treat me as a baby she don't allow me to do anything no partys no call phones no facebook ..!! the only she allows to me is to study --' she wants me to study day and night without stoping without taking one break i can't support this anymore  she  supervise me alll the time cause she thinks that i am in relationship when i am not ! she judge everything ! my hairstyle my clothes the style of music and movies every thing  oh god help me i can't suport this situation anymore i am suffring all the days i want that she becomes my friend not my body gard or my severe mom it's so hard to feel what i am feeling  she never tried to correct her altitude with me ! i am really tired and my father agree usually with her they pass all the time screaming on me when i am innoscent they cause to me allotof problems so i still lonely here .. plzzz help me 

:) Me..I'm a girl and I'm in relationship with Tomboy :) She kind and I love her but ma parent seem not to understand me..? Im 14 and they get so serious Like Im gonna marry OOOO Gosh == They like arghhh! They get my phone don't let me sign in FB or anything ! Is Terible! They just don't know ! They Think they alway right But if they were me they will know how much pain I have. I love my girl..No one want to lose if is it u.. U will think like me? Want to lose someone u love so muchh?

I understand you. My parents think freedom means something else. I love them both to bits but they dont understand me a lot. I tried to talk to them but it ended up in yelling. I dont know what to do, although, i think theyre loosening up a bit. Just go with it and youll see that they're doing whats best. BTW, im almost 13 and im longing freedom. Is that normal???????

I understand what your going through I am a confused Teen as well, My parents are yelling at me for everything and most times I dont even know what I did wrong. Or Why they are yelling for something as small as I forgot to clean my bedroom..... (OH DAMN HER ROOMS NOT CLEAN WORLD WAR 3) I mean honestly. My parents piss me off a lot. I love them I've gotten everything I want and Most times I get treated with ice cream and a new wardrobe. BUT They don't allow me to stay out later then 8:00 and I cant have sleep overs with guys..... IDK Why we are just friends. They need to trust me more.

I think I'm a good kid. Never acted out (much), always listened to what my parents say, and I have great grades (A's and one B). Sometimes, though, my parents are just too much.
My mom yells at me to clean my room, isn't satisfied when I do clean it exactly as she told me to, and then cleans it herself before I get home from school and have a chance to start working on it (the same holds true for my other chores). Then she says she wants some quality family time during dinner, and spends the rest of the time talking about taxes with my dad. I never talk once during the entire meal, unless they're pressuring me on my grades (it's one B! Just one!).
She likes to yell. Whenever I am being "stupid," she yells at me. I mean, can't she at least try to hold onto her temper before blowing a gasket?
She gets upset that I'm unmotivated (and I suppose I am, a bit). She complained that I have no hobbies, and when I started to write, says I should be doing sports instead, and that writing is useless.
I mean, I get that she's the typical stressed out housewife with a tragic backstory, but she always seems to blame me that I can't understand how harsh her childhood was, and that I should be grateful for my easy lifestyle. I'm plenty grateful! I'm so grateful, I'm complaining on the Internet. ;P
I ask her not to post my pictures on her Facebook, and she does it anyway. Always the ones where she looks the best, and I'm hanging out in the background with me stuffing my cheeks with popcorn or pulling out a wedgie.
Speaking of social media, she always compares me to her Facebook friends' kids. Oh, why can't I play the flute and violin and piano and do swimming and tennis and golf and get all A+'s! (Said girl who does that is the twin sister to my friend who does similar things, but has the same grades I do. Needless to say, she is freaking stressed, and I am worried.)
My mom wants me to go to Harvard, Princeton, etcetera (cetra?) and I'm just not feeling it. I have modest goals, and I'm feeling like she's trying to project on me. (Remember the tragic backstory? Think Cinderella.)
She complains that I don't dress nice enough, and that I should use my allowance (that I earn through my grades) to buy prettier clothes. The pattern usually goes like this: I buy clothes, she doesn't like them, I want to buy games, she doesn't let me (it's my money!), and I'm left with a few hundred saved up and nothing to spend it on. (At least I'm saving...?)
My dad is busy at work, and is tired at home. He's chill. We're cool. Sometimes he's strict, but otherwise, no complaints.
What I want to ask... I'm not sure what I want to ask. I just want to complain? (Seriously, Mom. Take a chill pill.)
My name is Jessica, and I am fourteen years old.