no testicles since birth, we are married for 10 years

thank you so much everyone. your posts helped me more than you could ever imagine. i have been married to my husband for 10 years now. i was a virgin when we got married. it took me quite a while to notice he had no testicles. i had never heard of that condition. we haven't been able to have kids. i went for my tests and all was normal with me. but i couldn't get him to go for fertility tests. he did not say a thing about his condition. he is now 41 and i am 32. he looks very young. he has no facial hair, no muscle. its only this year that i began to ask myself why. he works in another country so we are not together everyday. his sex drive has been low since we got married and it seems to be getting worse. i am not worried about him having no testicles. but all along i expected to have babies. its only last year that his younger brother mentioned something to me about him having had a faulty bladder surgery when he was young. my husband knows about it but he hasn't mentioned it. i'm truly quite hurt about him not mentioning anything 10 years into the marriage. i understand that it's not easy for him that's why i haven't been pushy since i suspected that there might be something wrong with him that made us fail to have kids. i was now so frustrated that i had planned to confront him just now. that's when i found this forum. i have had my questions answered and i'm really thankful. now i need help on how to get us to talk about it because we need to. we need to go through this together. not talking about it kills both of us.

more info..... he has no problems having an erection but he is not interested in sex. i think he doesn't know that there are many who have the same condition.

My boyfriend has bilateral undescended testicles and so he is also infertile. He looks completely normal young man has a thick beard. It hurts that we will never have children of our own. But we'll adopt and have a normal family. We both deserve it.
He is the most amazing person. No having any testicles don't matter when he is an amazing man. Praying for the best for your son.

And yeah he has a normal penis size, has erections and high sex drive. We haven't had sex yet. Waiting till our wedding night.

You don't have to feel responsible to end relationships because you think your burdening them. She will walk away if she can't take it. I love a man with the same condition. He tried to break up with me and I fought with him to be with him. It hurts that I won't ever be a mother but not having him in my life Is unimaginable.

Hi everyone,My situation is same and I'm 23 now.so scared to get married.nobody in my family knows that i had no testicles,they fix my marriage and don't know how i will face it.i have normal erection and everything except testicles.
so confused

Hey ! I hope u get this !
Just want to reach out and tell you that I wish you knew how much love is out there for you in the world. If your not happy where you are at, move to a different city. Go somewhere else try something else. Don't settle.
Love will exist for you !
Wish I could explain to you how important it is to find thing you love about your self and only and only focus on them.
Lift yourself up. If you can't do it alone, people around will help you.
I'm telling you this because I thought I'll be alone for the rest of my life. My parents screwed me over and I had a screwed up mind.
I worked on myself, I want to say for 27 years. And my boyfriend now , has no balls either, he cutt them off himself!! He didn't want balls. He voluntarily did it!
I over all benefit from it. Not having to take birth control.
Kids suck anyway. I don't feel bad for u that u can't have kids. Maybe u can use ur dads or something ..
Anyway. Wish u the best

If any male has undescended testicles and still has male characteristics. This means they are still getting testosterone. Most likelely testicles are still in abdomen. This is a very dangerous situation. Please seek help from a urologist. I was born this way i know! I cant imagine someone wiilfully cutting their balls off.

Anyone please talk to me if you have issues with undescended testicles i have been on hormones sjnce i was 15 years old. Failed surgeries times 3 to rectify the sutuation. Please dont ignore this condition. Even if you still have a strong sex drive. You are playing with your life!

My self same

Yes regularly I married for 3 years but no children

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Hi, I've been on Tostran gel for over 10 years now. I'm having real trouble getting to sleep at night, I'm sure it's because of the gel, has anyone experienced sleep problems? Has anyone looked into alternative herbs and superfoods to help them?

I feel the pain of all you young guys out there worrying about what girls will think, try not to worry, I'm 37 now and I'm married and have a young daughter. My wife has been very understanding about everything and we used a donor sperm through IVF to have a baby. Yes, things we're not as easy as most people have it, but you can still have what you want if you're open to doing things a different way.

I found girls really don't mind about the lack of balls, so try not to worry, if she does mind, she's not the right girls for you anyway! I was worried about people knowing and laughing at me, so I decided to tell everyone I knew when I was about 19, knowing that they would most likely gossip about it. That way if a girl like me, I'm pretty sure she would already know about my condition and not have a shock when she reached for my genitals. In all honesty I think the worrying we do is much worse than when girls find out. If I can help anybody with anything related please e-mail me and I'll reply when I can.

Am married to a man whom is the same and now dont know how to move in my family