I would like to know how long is normal to bleed after having sex for the first time? I've been with my partner for 3 years and it felt like the right time, he was very gentle and considerate with me, and even though I trusted him I was nervous and it hurt quite alot. But now I'm still bleeding and was wondering how long is normal??? and is there anything to soothe it??? Also how can I relax more?? My boyfriend is feeling guilty about hurting me. Any replies are greatly appreciated. C