well i have been having soreness around my vagina lips like when i walk or wash. it feels like something is overexposed or something(im not even sure the name of this part of the vagina but the part right around the inside of like the outer lips)and is rubbing against my underwear and stuff.but im not sure how my vagina looks normally since i dont go down looking often so im not sure if it looks different or not.if so it would have to be a subtle change cuz i cant really tell. i just got off my period a day or two ago and have only been experiencing the problem for the last couple days.i am only 15 years old and have been sexually active for only about half a year now. is anyone familiar with what this could be? will it go away? is it safe to continue having sex? i have also had slight inconstant pains around my abdomine and have not been able to move my bowels for the last few days even tho i feel like i need to whenever i sit down. i cant ask my parents or family because they would kill me if they new i wasnt a virgin. and i would rather kill myself than admit to my boyfriend that there could be a problem.but im seeing him tomorrow and hes gonna want sex. what should i do????????????? PLEASE ILL TAKE ANY ADVICE RIGHT NOW IM DESPERATE
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Sounds like you have some irritation going on around your labia. That's what it's called. The larger lips are the labia majora and the smaller ones are the labia minora, (big and small)
You should honestly get to know your body and what your personnel stuff looks like. Just get a hand held mirror, lay in your bed and have a look. It's your body and you need to know what makes it tick.
The pains in your tummy and the fact that you haven't pooped sounds like you are constipated. (can't poop easily) Just get yourself some stool softner, which you can buy straight over the counter at the local grocery store. Try some Dulcolax Stool Softner. It is gentle and it won't cause you any cramping. Don't use a LAXATIVE as you will have the runs from it along with some poop cramps, which hurt by the way.
You never mention if you are taking any form of birth control. And you never mention the useage of a condom.
Before you think about having any more sex, which your bf is gonna want according to you, you really have to think about birth control for sure. If mom and dad would kill you if they found out that you have lost your virginity, which by the way, they really can't kill you, what would they do if you told them that they were going to be grandparents???
Get to Planned Parenthood and do the right thing for every one concerned. You don't need a baby at the age of 15.
You should honestly get to know your body and what your personnel stuff looks like. Just get a hand held mirror, lay in your bed and have a look. It's your body and you need to know what makes it tick.
The pains in your tummy and the fact that you haven't pooped sounds like you are constipated. (can't poop easily) Just get yourself some stool softner, which you can buy straight over the counter at the local grocery store. Try some Dulcolax Stool Softner. It is gentle and it won't cause you any cramping. Don't use a LAXATIVE as you will have the runs from it along with some poop cramps, which hurt by the way.
You never mention if you are taking any form of birth control. And you never mention the useage of a condom.
Before you think about having any more sex, which your bf is gonna want according to you, you really have to think about birth control for sure. If mom and dad would kill you if they found out that you have lost your virginity, which by the way, they really can't kill you, what would they do if you told them that they were going to be grandparents???
Get to Planned Parenthood and do the right thing for every one concerned. You don't need a baby at the age of 15.
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