ODOR from groin area!!!

where do you get this? pure boric acid powder i've seen says to keep away from skin?

I know it has been a while since you've posted your concerns, but I figured after twenty years you might still need advice. I had a similar situation, but on opposite ends: my wife had a very peculiar odorous crotch area, too, but mainly near the nettled regions or what some people call "meat curtains" in my country (may be offensive, but true). We've been married for thirteen years and have two kids. Her winky region began to smell "funny" around 2 years ago and she even noticed a strong repugnant aroma around that area. It turned out to be a hormone imbalance that occurred after our second child was born. We are an older couple, so I think the fact her vagina was looser and she was going through some changes due to being in her forties. It turned out that hormone replacement and intermittent nystatin did the trick to clean her flips, folds, and everything in-between. Now that the stench is cleared up and she's confident again and walks around our bed nude with her crotch out and before she would have been ashamed because any swift amount of air like from our fan would cause the stench to fill our space very quickly. I too often gagged and would try to hide it. I once vomited on a fancy pillow and had to throw it out. However, it was a family heirloom and to this day my wife keeps looking for it to turn up somewhere in the house. Now my issue is that my wife wants oral pleasure and I'm hesitant because I still have imprinted on my brain the strange odors and (yes) sometimes weird sounds that used to manifest from her vagina. I'm been able to masturbate her with while wearing rubber dish gloves and told her the latex turned me on, but the truth is I don't want to fiddle my fingers any wear near her third eye. I know this may all sound crude, but I have no one to ask or talk to about this and lack of intimacy could ruin my marriage. My wife does give me oral sex and has never required me to wash my foreskin before going down on me. I'm not sure how she's able to handle this for all these years because I've smelled her breath afterwards and I can smell myself all over her lips and tongue. It is also a foul smell mixed with body odor that is not normally close to my face so I'm just not use to it. I do try to keep my member clean as directed, but just like my wife's meat-petals, I have to stretch and swing my skin in different formats to ensure I'm fresh as a pickle down there. I will admit that my balls are often sweaty and when I scratch them, they do can often have an odor similar to the funk my wife had in her vag-area. Turns out I've had a fungal infection and my GP prescribed me same medicine as hers-nystatin. A wonder drug for odd stinks and smells most people will have at some point near their crotch areas. My wife and I keep a tube on hand because where we live, it is easy to create moisture that can lead to fungal infections. As far as her breath and mine, we are older and have both been diagnosed with halitosis. We are each taking turns going to the dentist because of the cost. Neither of use grew up with good dental care being from the hills in Virginia. My wife actually grew up in a cave-like dwelling, sort of a cult of Quakers who had scattered off into their own group. Her teeth used to look normal, but of course with age and lack of care, some have loosened and dropped out of her mouth. We are both hoping to be ready for dentures so we can smile again. Not sure how to advise on the fartish smells your husband makes. Both my wife an I are intolerant to farts and when we've eaten a lot of mush, then a dab of Vick's Vapor Rub on the anus has helped. When someone farts in bed or if I'm walking through the bedroom and fart, then the Vick's comes out first and sort of masks the smell....or at least reduces the toxicity. So, in short 1) nystatin and 2) Vick's for crotch and ass. I will say that to my wife's disadvantage, she was never shown how to properly care for her vagina or anus. When we were younger we'd take long showers and I'd be sure to scrub her with soap because with the button-holeso close to the pee-hole, there were times she smelled like a dirty nappy. But, we are all humans and there are parts of us that just stink. It is good to teach kids how to preserve themselves and use common sense. Our older son has started to smell "down there," and we've noticed this while sitting next to him on the couch. He wears those shinny shorts like others his age. I did have to buy him some special soap because he told me his balls smelled funny. I think part of why this happens to people is all the pubic hair. My wife's GP said she should consider trimming some back and/or waxing areas. Her religion prevents this option and therefore she has a scruffy garden. It looks like a wiglet and probably could serve to make a couple of toupees. It doesn't bother me in the least as I too have a grassy field, as does my son, who is quickly starting to peek out of his underwear. We are just hairy folks and there's nothing to be ashamed about. So, I know I rambled a lot, and for that I apologize. I've been out of my meds due to the fact the doctor I see was arrested for practicing without a license. I have several mental disorders and luckily with the support of my beautiful (hairy and smelly) wife have maintained a good position in the company I'm employed with. Health care though is a joke and very expensive in the U.S. We sometimes see the doctor in the hills because he's cheaper and faster. However, he does not wear gloves or have good sanitation practices. My wife has literally found specs of trash in her crotch after a visit, so I hope we can both afford a cleaner doctor in the future. Good luck to you and your obese husband. I hope that he is able to attack the plagues he's experiencing. It would be hard to sit a a table and have someone's crotch smelling up one's nostrils. You sound like a patient and caring wife. God bless.

Dear Distraught,
I know it has been a while since you've posted your concerns, but I figured after twenty years you might still need advice. I had a similar situation, but on opposite ends: my wife had a very peculiar odorous crotch area, too, but mainly near the nettled regions or what some people call "meat curtains" in my country (may be offensive, but true). We've been married for thirteen years and have two kids. Her winky region began to smell "funny" around 2 years ago and she even noticed a strong repugnant aroma around that area. It turned out to be a hormone imbalance that occurred after our second child was born. We are an older couple, so I think the fact her vagina was looser and she was going through some changes due to being in her forties. It turned out that hormone replacement and intermittent nystatin did the trick to clean her flips, folds, and everything in-between. Now that the stench is cleared up and she's confident again and walks around our bed nude with her crotch out and before she would have been ashamed because any swift amount of air like from our fan would cause the stench to fill our space very quickly. I too often gagged and would try to hide it. I once vomited on a fancy pillow and had to throw it out. However, it was a family heirloom and to this day my wife keeps looking for it to turn up somewhere in the house. Now my issue is that my wife wants oral pleasure and I'm hesitant because I still have imprinted on my brain the strange odors and (yes) sometimes weird sounds that used to manifest from her vagina. I'm been able to masturbate her with while wearing rubber dish gloves and told her the latex turned me on, but the truth is I don't want to fiddle my fingers any wear near her third eye. I know this may all sound crude, but I have no one to ask or talk to about this and lack of intimacy could ruin my marriage. My wife does give me oral sex and has never required me to wash my foreskin before going down on me. I'm not sure how she's able to handle this for all these years because I've smelled her breath afterwards and I can smell myself all over her lips and tongue. It is also a foul smell mixed with body odor that is not normally close to my face so I'm just not use to it. I do try to keep my member clean as directed, but just like my wife's meat-petals, I have to stretch and swing my skin in different formats to ensure I'm fresh as a pickle down there. I will admit that my balls are often sweaty and when I scratch them, they do can often have an odor similar to the funk my wife had in her vag-area. Turns out I've had a fungal infection and my GP prescribed me same medicine as hers-nystatin. A wonder drug for odd stinks and smells most people will have at some point near their crotch areas. My wife and I keep a tube on hand because where we live, it is easy to create moisture that can lead to fungal infections. As far as her breath and mine, we are older and have both been diagnosed with halitosis. We are each taking turns going to the dentist because of the cost. Neither of use grew up with good dental care being from the hills in Virginia. My wife actually grew up in a cave-like dwelling, sort of a cult of Quakers who had scattered off into their own group. Her teeth used to look normal, but of course with age and lack of care, some have loosened and dropped out of her mouth. We are both hoping to be ready for dentures so we can smile again. Not sure how to advise on the fartish smells your husband makes. Both my wife an I are intolerant to farts and when we've eaten a lot of mush, then a dab of Vick's Vapor Rub on the anus has helped. When someone farts in bed or if I'm walking through the bedroom and fart, then the Vick's comes out first and sort of masks the smell....or at least reduces the toxicity. So, in short 1) nystatin and 2) Vick's for crotch and ass. I will say that to my wife's disadvantage, she was never shown how to properly care for her vagina or anus. When we were younger we'd take long showers and I'd be sure to scrub her with soap because with the button-holeso close to the pee-hole, there were times she smelled like a dirty nappy. But, we are all humans and there are parts of us that just stink. It is good to teach kids how to preserve themselves and use common sense. Our older son has started to smell "down there," and we've noticed this while sitting next to him on the couch. He wears those shinny shorts like others his age. I did have to buy him some special soap because he told me his balls smelled funny. I think part of why this happens to people is all the pubic hair. My wife's GP said she should consider trimming some back and/or waxing areas. Her religion prevents this option and therefore she has a scruffy garden. It looks like a wiglet and probably could serve to make a couple of toupees. It doesn't bother me in the least as I too have a grassy field, as does my son, who is quickly starting to peek out of his underwear. We are just hairy folks and there's nothing to be ashamed about. So, I know I rambled a lot, and for that I apologize. I've been out of my meds due to the fact the doctor I see was arrested for practicing without a license. I have several mental disorders and luckily with the support of my beautiful (hairy and smelly) wife have maintained a good position in the company I'm employed with. Health care though is a joke and very expensive in the U.S. We sometimes see the doctor in the hills because he's cheaper and faster. However, he does not wear gloves or have good sanitation practices. My wife has literally found specs of trash in her crotch after a visit, so I hope we can both afford a cleaner doctor in the future. Good luck to you and your obese husband. I hope that he is able to attack the plagues he's experiencing. It would be hard to sit a a table and have someone's crotch smelling up one's nostrils. You sound like a patient and caring wife. God bless.

Burts bees, in a tin.bacteria cant grow in honey, or bees wax.

20 years?!! I thought you would be immune to smelling this by now?

If you are being honest in this post, I truly believe that these reasons are far more than enough to ditch the fat stinker and find yourself some sweet smelling guy who you don't have to holding your breathe near. You might even start enjoying sex again. Life is far too short to endure c**p like this. Just don't feel you have to endure this sort of treatment. It is just as bad as being unfaithful, if not worse. Nobody and l mean NOBODY likes a bad smell!

I like the smell of a sweaty pair of bollox

Where can I buy this

Leave his selfish, overweight, disgusting, smelly ass! It's one thing to have foul odor, but to blatantly ignore your partners concerns and requests for 20 years...he doesn't care about you. Leave this fool and find someone who appreciates you and doesn't incite nausau just being around him. Your life will be much better off.

It might be diabetes. I have been battling this and Doctor says it is from my diabetes. I consulted a dermatologist who recommended Castallanis colorless paint. It is OTC. I found that Campo-phenique has similar ingrediants (phenol) and is cheaper. Seems to help.

I suffer from bromhidrosis a body odor secreted from the sweat glands I've had two surgeries and been through a thousand doctors and I'm the cleaning chic in the world cleaner than the ones talking behind my back you up here talking about him but you with him talking negative about him will not help him you better hope you don't get the condition 

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and youre a prick

Maybe stop doing dudes. Weirdo.

My god I read your store as if I was in your shoes or should I say "bed" lol at first I was confused at how you can be with someone (married or not) and not speak up to address the situation but those questions I asked myself were quickly put to rest once you went on to explain your attempts to rectify

While I have no major advice to contribute to you or your situation to get him over his selfish tendencies I do have a great idea to help you mitigate the smell when in close proximity... "Vicks vapor rub" rubbed in or around your nostrils discreetly before bed will overpower the crotch rot smell

My mother would do this when she had to visit my aunts house (which she avoided like the plague or in your case your husbands crotch musk) I think this is what homicide investigators, morticians, forensics, and anyone who works in close proximity to the smell of rotting human flesh use (which may not smell as bad as what's emanating from your husbands crotch)

If I were you I'd probably be the one to bring him "tea" in bed but instead of tea i would bring him coffee with fluconazole (antifungal pill) crushed/blended into it (if he asks why it's bitter just say you ran out of sugar and used sweet n low or equal (buy it in advance so he doesn't question it and "forget" to buy sugar when you run out

If that doesn't work offer to have sex with him "man up" smother those nostrils with Vicks vapor rub and say you're going to give him a massage (fully body rub) before the sex this way you can have an excuse to slather copious amounts of clindamycin around his whole damn groin/balls/thighs/body lol you can use oil to "play it off" on the other areas of the body lol I'm sure he will be so excited he is finally getting some that he wouldn't pay no mind to what you're rubbing him with!

Alternatively, you can always buy this stuff for yourself and tell your doctor you have a vaginal infection/ringworm and need fluconazole and I'm not too sure how you would get a doctor to prescribe clindamycin cream but I'm sure there are tons of "off label" usea for one to get their hands on a prescription but IMO your husband might be completely embarrassed to get a prescription for these medications because of the things they're usually intended for so that's also a scenario you should consider from his view and he might be open to using them if they were right there in front of him

He's a doctor so he might be a bit of a stubborn narcissist and cares what other people think of him (way more than he should) so he refuses to see a doctor/pharmacist to treat himself and the inner narcissist in him might not want to admit you are right about what he needs to do

Sorry in advance for explaining the prescriptions and I'm confident you are aware of them because you're a nurse lol I about spit my drink out when I read the part of your post of him fishing the teabags out with his fingers lol this story made my day and I'm sorry if it's at your expense

Fingers crossed for you and remember bleach is your (his) friend

***i know this is a bit late from when you posted but fill me in on the situation if it's still going on***

My god I read your store as if I was in your shoes or should I say "bed" lol at first I was confused at how you can be with someone (married or not) and not speak up to address the situation but those questions I asked myself were quickly put to rest once you went on to explain your attempts to rectify

While I have no major advice to contribute to you or your situation to get him over his selfish tendencies I do have a great idea to help you mitigate the smell when in close proximity... "Vicks vapor rub" rubbed in or around your nostrils discreetly before bed will overpower the crotch rot smell

My mother would do this when she had to visit my aunts house (which she avoided like the plague or in your case your husbands crotch musk) I think this is what homicide investigators, morticians, forensics, and anyone who works in close proximity to the smell of rotting human flesh use (which may not smell as bad as what's emanating from your husbands crotch)

If I were you I'd probably be the one to bring him "tea" in bed but instead of tea i would bring him coffee with fluconazole (antifungal pill) crushed/blended into it (if he asks why it's bitter just say you ran out of sugar and used sweet n low or equal (buy it in advance so he doesn't question it and "forget" to buy sugar when you run out

If that doesn't work offer to have sex with him "man up" smother those nostrils with Vicks vapor rub and say you're going to give him a massage (fully body rub) before the sex this way you can have an excuse to slather copious amounts of clindamycin around his whole damn groin/balls/thighs/body lol you can use oil to "play it off" on the other areas of the body lol I'm sure he will be so excited he is finally getting some that he wouldn't pay no mind to what you're rubbing him with!

Alternatively, you can always buy this stuff for yourself and tell your doctor you have a vaginal infection/ringworm and need fluconazole and I'm not too sure how you would get a doctor to prescribe clindamycin cream but I'm sure there are tons of "off label" usea for one to get their hands on a prescription but IMO your husband might be completely embarrassed to get a prescription for these medications because of the things they're usually intended for so that's also a scenario you should consider from his view and he might be open to using them if they were right there in front of him

He's a doctor so he might be a bit of a stubborn narcissist and cares what other people think of him (way more than he should) so he refuses to see a doctor/pharmacist to treat himself and the inner narcissist in him might not want to admit you are right about what he needs to do

Sorry in advance for explaining the prescriptions and I'm confident you are aware of them because you're a nurse lol I about spit my drink out when I read the part of your post of him fishing the teabags out with his fingers lol this story made my day and I'm sorry if it's at your expense

Fingers crossed for you and remember bleach is your (his) friend

***i know this is a bit late from when you posted but fill me in on the situation if it's still going on***