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oh no! what'll happen? my mother caught me watching porn. but she doesn't know that i masturbate, yet.
i know both are bad, what's worse - watching porn or masturbating??? but that doesn't matter.

has this happened to anyone??? what will she do to me??? (i hope she doesn't tell me father, he's the strict one!)

please reply fast! thanks in advance!

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Hi,

Your mom will probably be upset with you watching porn and so will your dad but they won't stop loving you. If they ask just tell them the truth as to why you were watching it. Was it curiosity? Were you masturbating when mom caught you?

Odds are, if you've been masturbating for even a little while, your mom will know. She'll find evidence on your sheets or your underwear.

Masturbation is nothing to be ashamed of.

Of course every family, and religion is different.

At this point though, since you've been caught, just admit to it.

Take it like a man, if you're masturbating, then you are one anyways.

Let us know how it goes, OK? Good luck.
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hey 'medic-dan', thanks a lot.

the reason why i'm worried is, i'm indian, even having a girlfriend is considered wrong by parents in india. (though that has no effect!)
and i've always been a very innocent boy in my parent's eyes.......i just don't know how they will take it.

it has been a day since it happened & my mum hasn't said anything about it. either she wants to talk in private or she won't say anything.

thanks a lot anyways, i'll keep you updated if you wish. :-)
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Thanks for posting back. I have a much better understanding of your concern now.

I can't speak for your parents. I do think that if they bring this up though that you should answer them truthfully.

I would like to know how they react if you don't mind. Culturally things seem very different than here in the US. Personally, I'm old fashioned and am not happy with what I see happening in the US.

Good luck, you will be OK.
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Thanks for replying.

Well, my parents spoke to me and explained how these things attract you and spoil you and why these things are wrong, etc.

i don't know know why, but because they didn't have any valid evidence, i denied having anything to do with it.

apparently, they don't know i masturbate, at least they pretend they don't.

yes, i think i should have told them the truth, but i don't want to, now that i've lied about it.

Thanks for your support!
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Hi,

I'm glad you had a talk with your parents. It was probably not very easy for them.

They may not have wanted to embarrass you regarding masturbation. Even if they know, they may not want to bring it up.

We're all here if you need us. Keep in touch.
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I'm sorry that your parents don't think that you masturbate and that they don't think it's okay but it's totally normal and natural. I guess my best advice is just to be discreet and don't really get caught. I hope that helps?
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OMG, I TOTALLY understand... my parents are muslim sudanese people (which kind of have the same values as Indian parents) Hense the MUSLIM) and you have to understand that they were taught that all types of pleasure before marrige was considered bad. And in the muslim world they fuse culture and religion into one. So, give them a brake when you told them, they are most likely not going to except it.
P.S.

I'm kinda about to be in the same situation as you were.

P.S.S

I know this is kinda outdated, but I felt I had to get my word out.
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I caught my son watching porn. My husband, my daughter and I went out the the country for the day when we came home I opened the front door and seen My son sitting in his underware watching porn with the volume up loud. I yelled at him " are you watching porn?" he jumped up switched off the tv and said "ahhh No." I laughed and said " get your ass off my couch adjust your hardon and go get some pants on." My husband and my daughter laughed there asses off. Thats why to day we have no asses. ;-) My son denied the whole thing even though he was caught, I said to him if your going to do that kind of thing in my house do it in your room I dont want jizz on my couch. ------ I am a very loving mom and after all my son is 18.
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lol nice i found this really funny
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I laughed out loud at this. Great post.
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i was jacking off once,and i had my pants like hung on my knees and my mom walks in and my penis is all hanging and sh*t.But she didn't see it cuz my pants were right there.so i was like pretending to sit up and pulled up my pants just in time :-)
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hey shubham please contact me, I am one of them who has been caught badly. I want to share some information with u. I am suffering frm depression due to it. I want to know what happened to u after. here we can't chat ,cause i am new user for this site. U can message ,ur response. but be quick.
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Dude I know so am I but I am Paki so my mum will literally kill me if I ever watch porn
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im 14 and masturbate, my mom maybe would understand but she would eventually tell everyone, seeing how there's only 2 rooms in my house and 1 room is for my older sister i live with my mom, its hard to even masturbate, there always there! even in the bathroom they always come in, either to "check on me" or just to pee >.> . im pretty sure they know i do all that since i was so turned on yet still young (9) i did it in bed while sleeping with my mom. she also prob checks my underwear and stuff. but she never really talked about it, she onced said that the thinks that i watch porn like my father ( LOL ) but i denied since my sister was there, she was like " mhmm so thats how you know all that sh*t", what a f*****g b***h, you dont learn anything from porn but positions and cum and sh*t, and even if i knew something i wouldnt f*****g tell her. i do masturbate when there not around, it just keeps me from stress and it relaxes me a lot sometimes, makes me feel  good. :)
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