14 year old female.....My parents caught me masterbating in my room...what do i do?

samanthadean303262 over a year ago

Hi, im 14 and a female, and recently my mom walked in on me while i was ,,well you know,... masterbating. Im soo Embaraced now and embaraced to do it again, but really want to because it feels really good and eases my anxiety away. Also to make things worse, my mom wont even bring it up with me, like it never even happened! that is bothering me very much, because i dont know how she feels or if shes mad at me. we have had the Talk before so i know aboult boys and sex, but i just am worruied if im in trouble or not PLease Help !!

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freshman noise over a year ago

Hi, you have done nothing wrong, what you was doing was perfectly natural for your age and you was doing it in the privacy of your own room so if anyone was in the wrong it was your mum for not knocking or calling out before she entered.
She is probably just embarrassed about it as much as you was if you was naked and she see to.
Try just saying to her about isn't it better I do that and relieve my sexual tension than get involved with boys and end up pregnant.
If you would like more advice feel free to reply :-)

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sally over a year ago

Hi, I can sort of relate. My grandmother walked in on my bf and I having sex once. Not good. She then told my parents thinking we'd get in trouble. They thought it was funny and were upset with her for not respecting our privacy. So you never know how parents will react. Masturbating is natural and normal. And as much as it is probably too much information your mum has probably done it too. She might be confronted by your emerging sexuality and fearful for you. She may just be trying to respect your privacy. Or maybe she's prudish and horrified. I don't know her so I don't know. If you have the sort of relationship where you can talk to her then that might help. You havent done anything wrong, but I understand your embarrassment. I hope that helps.

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sally over a year ago

I just,wanted to add, if you are in trouble you'd probably know by now as it happened a few days ago. She's probably embarrassed and doesn't want to bring it up.

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Chrisbo99 over a year ago

Hey, this is perfectly normal! I'm a 14 year old boy and I do it all the time, and I'm pretty sure 90 percent of all humans do too.

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Good luck!

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Nemiki305187 over a year ago

Blankcanvas is right. Sex is not the easiest subject between parents and kids. There is nothing wrong with masturbation especially for someone your age. There are so many risks involved in sexual relations but self-pleasure has no risk except for the embarrassement of being caught by your mom ;) So the worst is out of the way on that front. If you really want to bring it up to her, then do so. Once the awkwardness is out of the way, it may actually give you two a better relationship.

Whatever the case, you have done nothing wrong. This is something that most people do.

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Guest over a year ago

Caught masturbating by your parents? Don't know what to do? Look them in the eye and finish like a boss!

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Guest over a year ago

It's normal I don't think your mom really cares and is just embarrassed she walked in while you were. If my mom walked in on me she would tell my step dad and start teasing me and tell all my friends so just be glad your mom doesn't want to talk about it :)

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Guest over a year ago

what if theyre asian

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Guest over a year ago

im a teenage boy and my mom walked in on me watching porn i wasnt masterbaiting but she definitely seen what was on my screen im not sure if i should say something to her or just leave it i really need help please

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Guest over a year ago

Well I see it is as you are not having sex so that's a good sign and mom is probably alright with it just dont let dad find out

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awake pin over a year ago

So as a 14 year old girl my hormones are getting worse/better. It was a normal Wednesday night (for the most part.) and I was masturbating and my mom walked in on me and ever since then she has been treating me differently and asks me what i'm doing and who i'm talking to when i'm on a face-time with my boyfriend and tell me to keep it down in case my dad is upstairs(since she doesn't want him walking in on anything) what do I do I've been a little scared that she is mad or something

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finest variation over a year ago

Nothing to worry about. Your mom is probably embarrassed too and cant get herself to chat about it to you. Many parents find it difficult to chat about these things to their kids.

Just relax and pretend nothing happened. Next time lock your door when you want your private time or do it when in the shower or toilet.

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Guest over a year ago

I can talk about this with you all you want to.

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Guest over a year ago

that's natural to masterbat at this age and it is normal you do not have to feel embarrassed your mom will also understand that it's normal

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