On December 18th, my boyfriend and I were performing sexual actions. He and I are virgins and all we did was oral sex, and he also fingered me. This is not the first time that any oral sex took place; however, this was the first time that there was any fingering. The fingering was rough but pleasurable, I didn't feel any immense pain during fingering. I did notice that I was a little dry (not lubricated enough). After that day it has felt uncomfortable to sit, walk, or even urinate. Yesterday I was extremely concerned and looked to see why it felt so uncomfortable and I saw bumps on my vagina and the left labia (I believe this is the right word) is slightly swollen. I am 18 and my boyfriend is 19. I have put Vaseline on the irritated area and I have washed the area as well. And last night I slept with the Vaseline on and no underwear to see if the underwear was adding to irritation. I am also considering buying Vagisil to help with the irritation. My parents have yet to know about him, so I don't know how I will get to an actual gynecologist. I am very scared and I just want some answers. Can you help me please?
Thank you.
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well usually if you get fingered for a long period then you can become raw. And it is very uncomforatable but it is usually nothing to worry about. it should go away in about a week or so. hey you could try to get some epson salt and run some warm bath water poor some of the epson salt in the and relax for a while. But other than that not a big deal just rawness!!!!
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I use Hydrocortisone cream for most sores and irritations. It works wonders, usually in a day.
Don't get it inside your vagina, it's not for internal use.
I use it on my hemroids.
I have certainly smeared it on the outside of my anus without any ill effects but I don't know what the effect of getting it inside would be. It doesn't say on the tube. It just says don't get it inside.
Vaseline feels good when I put it on but it doesn't seem to do anything to speed up healing for me.
"rough but pleasurable"? o.O
My gosh I wouldn't consider putting any of my appendages inside someone I loved without lots of lubrication.
"immense pain"? o.O
You shouldn't feel pain, it's supposed to be pleasurable :-D
Don't get it inside your vagina, it's not for internal use.
I use it on my hemroids.
I have certainly smeared it on the outside of my anus without any ill effects but I don't know what the effect of getting it inside would be. It doesn't say on the tube. It just says don't get it inside.
Vaseline feels good when I put it on but it doesn't seem to do anything to speed up healing for me.
"rough but pleasurable"? o.O
My gosh I wouldn't consider putting any of my appendages inside someone I loved without lots of lubrication.
"immense pain"? o.O
You shouldn't feel pain, it's supposed to be pleasurable :-D
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