My wife has scoliosis and whenever I arouse her its quick to end because her lower back starts to hurt and I spend the rest of the hour messaging it for her. What I can gather is that swelling from the clitoris causes tissue to be pressed into her spine, I can physically feel her spine from the inside. Anybody have a suggestion for me? Were married and broke I can't exactly ask a doctor because of the 120$ deposit -nervous laugh- "yes I am still a virgin and we've been together for 3 going on 4 years "I know sex doesn't matter in a marriage but honestly I cant masturbate and it would be nice to give HER a release instead of having one by myself."