me and my gf have started to have sex she was a virgin well so far, i got my penis into her but it hurts when i pull it out but doesnt when its fully in,
its like her open hole is tight so as i pull out my knob the big bit must hurt it, but she said something about popping her cherry so the pain will stop afterwards so she can start feeling pleasure instead of pain,
se hasnt felt any pleasure at all penis has been in there about 2 3 times
any help to make her pain stop, pop her cherry what ever, so we can start haviung some good sex
cheers
its like her open hole is tight so as i pull out my knob the big bit must hurt it, but she said something about popping her cherry so the pain will stop afterwards so she can start feeling pleasure instead of pain,
se hasnt felt any pleasure at all penis has been in there about 2 3 times
any help to make her pain stop, pop her cherry what ever, so we can start haviung some good sex
cheers
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Sex shouldn't be painful. The vagina is lined with some very powerful muscles. Most likely, she is unconsciously tensing those muscles. Insufficient lubrication might also be a problem. (What type of pain is it? Burning, cramping?) .
I suggest you do a lot of foreplay. Set a relaxing mood, put on some soft music, maybe light some scented candles (or not, they can present a fire hazard) and have a lot of foreplay. Kiss her, rub and suck her nipples, massage her clit, and give her head. Bring her to an orgasm or two and then begin fingering her. Start with one finger. If she is dry, use K-Y or some other water based lubricant. Once she relaxes and is able to take one finger comfortably, add and second, and then a third. Just slowly move them in and out until very vagina in very relaxed.
Go slowly, and if she is still having pain then go slower use more lubricant.
I suggest you do a lot of foreplay. Set a relaxing mood, put on some soft music, maybe light some scented candles (or not, they can present a fire hazard) and have a lot of foreplay. Kiss her, rub and suck her nipples, massage her clit, and give her head. Bring her to an orgasm or two and then begin fingering her. Start with one finger. If she is dry, use K-Y or some other water based lubricant. Once she relaxes and is able to take one finger comfortably, add and second, and then a third. Just slowly move them in and out until very vagina in very relaxed.
Go slowly, and if she is still having pain then go slower use more lubricant.
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