She never gives herself enough time to orgasm, what can i do

The time it takes for a girl to orgasm differs from girl to girl. It takes me a while to orgasm, while my girlfriend can do it in less than 2 minutes.

I'm REALLY in to dominatrix stuff. This is would be great for you because you can be loving yet forceful at the same time. Buy a pair of handcuffs, a blindfold, maybe a whip.

OR

Why not buy a clitoral stimulator? I know some men have a problem with these because they feel like they need to do it--at least that's how my girlfriend is. Anyway, this would make her orgasm come a little faster.

I don't know why your girlfriend doesn't want to orgasm. It will be the greatest feeling ever!!

I hope I've helped at least a little bit!!

GOOD LUCK!!

--LinZ

To be honest it sounds like she's lying.
When preforming oral make sure you stay near the clit... it helps =]


Also personally it's a lot easier for me and it feels just as good for my girlfriend when I finger her.

It sounds to me like she has other things on her mind than the feeling she's getting while you are down there. She would tell you if you aren't at the clit. Have you tried spending time massaging her, without it leading up to sex. Read up on it, learn how to massage her the right way and listen to her to see what she likes too. A week or so of homework in that department and a few CLEAN massage sessions where you don't expect it to lead anywhere will get her mentally on the right track.

Also she just might not like looking at you down there. Try imagine yourself licking her from her perspective, it's enjoyable for both of you I'm sure. Let's face it, it's not the most manly image and it might be a bit off putting to her so you'd want her to be very responsive before you go down there to overcome that. If she enjoys regular sex try that with maybe a penis vibrator and some lube to help her along.

One last thing. Never ever ever ever moan about an invitation to have sex. It is fun going down on a girl but so is plain healthy sex, and it's not impossible or even difficult for you to give a girl an orgasm during sex. It sounds to me like you like giving oral a bit too much and are less concerned about her than you are about your own enjoyment of it, watch out for that one.

I once had this problem with a previous girlfriend
We were sexually active for about 6 months and not once it that time period would she let me make her reach orgasm
I made her sit down and talk to me about it and i found out that she was embarrassed because when she orgasms she squirts cum!!
Im not saying this is ur case but just try and talk to her about it, just bring it up in a normal conversation sometime

Hope everything works out ok!

She's doesn't feel comfortable when your down there and feels like it's taking to long so she does gives up.

Hey, ive been having a similar problem, my partner has only ever orgasmed once in her life and that was with me, she has informed me that she is not keen on the feeling and enjoys it upto the point just before. I occasionally drop it in now and again, asking her if shed let me take her all the way, but alas, due to her fear of this feeling she says no each time. our sex life is growing and getting stronger and more fun, she now loves me going down on her, she loves being on top and she above all loves the feel of me in her. ive tried playing with her as we have intercourse too, but she stops me also when it gets to a point. slowly over time, she has let me spend more time playing and stimulating her clit, to the point that she feels it more sensitively when im in her, which she never has felt before. we joke that over the last year i have sexified her, as before she was with me her experiences with other guys had left her with with a very low sex drive. our sex life now is stella. and i feel that soon she will let me take her there. we are both very loving and attentive to each others needs and desires.

The thing id like to ask s, is this something that the ladies out there has experienced, an uncomfortableness to reaching orgasm??

if there is, can someone advise me as to how to reassure my awesome fiance that having an orgasm is a good feeling not a scary one?

Thanks.

Stu