still bleeding after loosing virginity had sex 4 times how long will it last?

Guest over a year ago

so i'm 17...almost 18 and about a month ago i lost my virginity to my boyfriend and the first night we had sex twice b/c he is kinda having problems with stamana he only lasts about 30 seconds but anyway thats not what i'm worried about. so the first time we did it i bled but i expected that b/c i hadent had sex before and i was told that might happen when my hymen was broken but then about a week later we did it again and i bled again and then another week went by and i still bled....so i've had sex with him four times now .... is this normal? if so how long is this going to last b/c one of my friends has had sex at least 20 times and she says she bleeds a little bit every time...so if someone could help me that would be awsome.

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Guest over a year ago

after losing your virginity, there should be no more bleeding. if it hurts when you two are together you need to ask him to be more gentle. also depending on what birth control you are taking (if you are) it could just be spotting from the high emotional state you go into before, during, and after sex. i hope this helped...

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Guest over a year ago

hello i'm 18...almost 19 i lost my virginity to my boyfriend..i guess you can say that i lost it this saturday. He only lasts about 30 seconds or lest but the thing is today is Monday and still im bleeding.. why????? is it because i'm worried.it doesn't hurt anymore and im not using any birth control, during and i havent done any sex since them. we only used a condom..

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Guest over a year ago

As you say ur bf having problems with stamana , it might be that your hymn may not torned ,hence you r facing bleeding, anyway u don't worried about. so enjoy it with due care. :-D

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Poet4life over a year ago

Hey um.....well if he's big he may make u bleed....even after the first time. I'm a guy and well. My girl blead her first time as normal. And even the second but....we didn't do it like it was the end of the world.....be gental...your guy shouldn't EVER start out thrashing it......especially sence you haven't been sexually active for a while. Just be more gental and a few minutes after that.....then it's just well you know. 30 sec....sometimes it depends on the conditions.

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Lea_ over a year ago

i was just experiencing your same problem, no need to worry! A couple weeks ago i lost my virginity to my boyfriend of a year and weve done it twice since then and im still bleeding during sex. This means your hymen is not fully torn. You bleed your first time because it was probably partially torn and every time you have sex you tear it alittle bit more. You will keep bleeding from your hymen until it is fully torn. It shouldn't be a huge amount of blood each time it should be small amounts. And the more you have sex the blood amount should reduce. If the blood is still in large portions for the next couple times you do it you might want to check with your doctor and get a professional opinion and ask him/her and more questions you have about your hymen sex life etc. Good luck with everything! Hope this helped :)

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Guest over a year ago

I lost my virginity it bleeding and second time and is normal?

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Guest over a year ago

same thing happened to me

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Guest over a year ago

same thing happened to me....

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Milusha over a year ago

I have the same problem for this moment

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Monica over a year ago

I lost my virginity about a month ago and I bleed for like a week after sex but never during sex, just in the morning when I wake up and then for the next 7 days and I'm on birth control. I just want to know when this will end!

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Guest over a year ago

You will probably bleed because you're not doing it often, it's good that you're taking your time to do it again

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Guest over a year ago

Yes this is probably it

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Guest over a year ago

Hey Leah, so if I had sex on the Friday and then tried Wednesday and I am still bleeding does that mean my Hymen is still not propely torn? Until I break it the bleeding will stop during sex??

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Guest over a year ago

What of he is gentle and it doesn't hurt? I lost my virginity a month ago. I didn't bleed the first time because he didn't want to hurt me. We have had sex 5 times now and after the third time I started spotting after sex. I am on birth control

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