need some opinions on threesomes....me and my man been together 3 years.... and we were talking ab adding some thriller into our physcial intimacy....but only for foreplay..... what do you think? theres more details...but i want atleast one response before i say lol
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U did not mention .. wats ur age ?
then we can decide if it is very much necesasry or not..
cos sometimes.. without ur knowledge.. u both can jump into sex ...
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My man and I have had a few successful 3somes in the past couple years. I have always felt a little bi so I wanted to try it, Id been with a couple girlfriends in HS and loved it and since then always wished I could feel that again. The first time we did it, I brought it up to my man and strangely he initially hesitated. After a few weeks of hounding him he said OK, and we talked to a mutual friend about it.
My man is usually pretty reserved in the bedroom but once we got that third person in the room, he turned into a primal sex fiend. I love doing it now and it hasn't been a struggle. Being the focus of two set of people is wonderful, and when us girls team up on him he loves it more and more.
Communication is key here. You must trust your partner. Its my thought that age and relationship experience help here. As an younger woman with an slightly older man and both of us have been in at least one good and one bad relationship prior, its a good balance. Its also ideal to have a partner who is somewhat similar physically. The last thing you need is either one of you falling out of love for the third person. The partners we have picked have all been women and all physically look about like I do.
To tell you the truth there was times I wanted to just spend time with our GF's but I love my guy too much. The pull of a threesome is always towards a couple either the established couple or the new couple, so if the established couple is solid than really I can recommend it. If you or the other have jealousy issues, I can see how it would be trouble. Communication is key here, gotta be able to talk about all this.
If you still think you are ready for it, let me end with some pro's to having a threesome. The first time we tried it, we literally had sex all night and into breakfast. Us girls started together and my man watched us. Then he joined us and we helped him off, and while he was recharging us girls tried totally new things. Rinse and repeat. It was amazing, seriously addictive. Once was all we needed and now we have 3 different women we have regular threesomes with.
It works for us, we've seen it not work for others.
Great Question and I hope this helps.
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