My b/f masterbates every single day. Problem with this is we never have sex. He does not understand how this ruins our relationship. Any suggestions? I have tried everything, including trying out his fantacies at a sex club. He never even got off. (He says its a control thing) What is wrong with him?
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Everything! I can think of several possibilities:
1. He suffers from some form of obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD). Masturbating every single day is a bit excessive for somebody who already has a gf.
2. He may be asexual or homosexual, and he uses you as a front to show other people that he is a "straight" normal guy. This is especially true if he had never engaged in any form of sex play with you, or did it without any passion.
3. He may suffer from gynephobia (fear of women), a psychological condition that somehow makes him impotent with women.
I think the two of you have a somewhat platonic relationship. The only solution that I can think of is for you both to seek counseling. If he refuses, the future of your relationship is rather grim.
1. He suffers from some form of obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD). Masturbating every single day is a bit excessive for somebody who already has a gf.
2. He may be asexual or homosexual, and he uses you as a front to show other people that he is a "straight" normal guy. This is especially true if he had never engaged in any form of sex play with you, or did it without any passion.
3. He may suffer from gynephobia (fear of women), a psychological condition that somehow makes him impotent with women.
I think the two of you have a somewhat platonic relationship. The only solution that I can think of is for you both to seek counseling. If he refuses, the future of your relationship is rather grim.
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maybe he's not really attracted to u and just keeps u so he has someone he can call a girlfriend. bottom line, he's not enjoying sex with u.
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