Trouble holding erection after ejaculation

Just rub lots of garlic on your penis... Itz great...

His question is not "staying power" but continuing erection enough for penetration AFTER his orgasm. I was "gifted" -when I was younger- in I got HARDER after ejaculation than before-for 3 or 4 "cumshots"; however, as I aged, this gift has diminished. What I am finding is, DON'T FIGHT IT! The parasympathetic nervous system causes erection, the sympathetic ejaculation; they are antagonistic-parasympathetic slows HR, etc., sympathetic makes you ready to run from danger or fight-blood flow and nervous excitement to "unnecessary" viscera, GI tract, penis, etc., diminishes. Thus, the powerful sympathetic burst "floods out" the parasympathetic, just as if you were eating a meal and an axe murder ran at you-you'd jump up and run right? And probably feel a "heavy gut" after you escaped. Same thing after ejaculation. So why do I say "don't fight it"? well, the orgasm will come, and the more you "strain" the cremaster mm and the smooth muscle in holding back, the more norepi will flood the receptors, blocking out ach, so you "go limp". Let go, and the neurotransmitter ratio will diminish, and you'll find your penis staying hard after you cum; I totally disagree with "pinching it off" and that c**p, unless you are cumming too soon-and to me, anything under 90 minutes is "too soon". My problem now is low testosterone, but once I have some more gel and injjections, I expect to be banging away for times you wouldn't believe-but neither did my partners! Anotehr thing, try not to worry about it; anxiety is sympathetic, too; causing limpness in the penis. From what my female friends who were also my partners, they had maybe 1 or 2 guys before me who could "keep thrusting" after a cumshot; and then through only 1 and not much longer. For many women, you may be concerned for nothing; once they reach G-spot vaginal orgasm, many women "tire" and want full body contact more than more intercourse; as you know, every woman wants different speed, hardness of thrusting, and other variants. SAME IS TRUE FOR TIME OF INTERCOURSE. Remember, try not to be anxious, this will kill the erection post-orgasm faster than holding it for too long; avoid pinching and trwisting and other c**p unless you are a 1 minute guy; I honestly cannot name one of dozens of guys who confided to me-or girls who were friends who talked about their partner premarturely ejaculating-and none had any real success with the "pinch off method". Desensitizing creams? Same story. As far as erectile dysfunction pills, I have no experience here; I have heard they work for impotence, but you don't have a problem attaining erection, right? (Enjoy this! If you get Low testosterone later, like me, you will loathe the old sleepy snake!) One thing we have no data on yet due to their relatively short term on market is what is "dependency" on erectile dysfunction drugs? If you get healthy erections now, and began using Cialis or other product, will you begin to require it to get erect? No one knows yet-and technically, this is abusing the medication, never a good idea! Good luck and good thrusting and remember; 1)no anxiety and 2) let the cumshot go and see if you stay erect through it and after it! john m., dvm, phd (neurology), ma, ms (pharmacology) ba, bs, emt-b, emt-P(CC) RN(CC)

I have a question I am 21 and my sex life is great...until about 2 to 3 weeks ago...I used to be able to hold an erection for hours after ejaculation ...then one night after ejaculation my penis just went limp and didn't get hard again....after the embarrassing attemptat explaining what happened I kinda just blew it off and didn't think anything of it... I figured sh*t happens and went on like I usually do and a day or so went by and I was back at again and it happened again....it's happened 4 times in a row and what to do it what's going on....Idk to think over exertion, ED, std, diabetes in a wayI'm kinda worried .... can any one he'll me

I agree,you can cum twice or even three times on the same erection,I did it many times when I was young.I met a guy once who did not believe I could do it,until I proved it to him.Like you say,you have to grit your teeth and press on,the result really is worth it.After the third time,there is little left,but you sure have fun!

Perfectly normal. You're not a porn star. Being able to hold an erection after ejaculation is pretty rare. Don't worry about it totally normal.

What do you mean lifting your scrotum? How long do the exercises last each day? Any instructions or links?

Yes that is right but what about of you lose your erection after the first cum?

Hi, I am like you I get hard real quick and now I found the girl whom I can share my life with, as I said we are similar, my penis stays hard even after 4 or 5 orgasms but now I'm experiencing problems because now after 2 or 3 rounds my penis can't erect anymore we need to wait again for it to be erect. I'm now testing if it's because of the daily and long sex. So we are not gonna have sex anytime soon, ill be back here in 5 months or so or a more earlier time, but I'll be checking this thread daily, if you guys experienced this and have a remedy for this please reply on this comment thank you so much

Absolutely. For me it's a matter of how turned on I am my wife speaks Spanish and I don't so when she gets to feeling really good she'll start screaming her moans and she talks in Spanish and it's so..... sexy..... After she starts that I usually last about 5 more minutes then I come but I feel so aggressive I keep going. Like my population paste comes out but I stay rock hard and go for another 10 plus minutes before finishing again ;)

Pornograhy messes you sexually because u can come depending on it. It also interfers with your sex life mentally.

I have a healthy sex life and function well. My question is, is it possible to maintain an erection immediately after orgasm so that intercourse can continue?
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Hello when I do sex after coming out spearm my penis will not erect for 10to12 min what I have to do that I can erect my penis on that time

i rub my penis in few strokes i cum but afetr that my penis doesn't get stiff it looses power what can i do to have an erection soon?

there also is a great product call yohimbine, you can get the liquid form on line but be careful to get the correct. Then if you have an understanding doctor you can get the pharmaceutical pill form grade with a prescription. Not only does it get you rock hard but it also causes the girth to swell too which my wife loves

you can maintain erection after ejaculation and get even harder. all you have to do is stick one of your fingers at the base of the top of the penis, between base of penis and stomach, it keep the blood flowing in. you can go forever this way. release from time to time to allow safe blood flow.