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i have been to second and third three times now and every time I didn't come... I don't know why.... Can anyone enlighten me as to why? Is there something wrong with me? I can come on my own just not in that situation... Please can someone tell me why and what I can do about it.

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Will.

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Can anyone help?

Will.
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Hi sorry to keep bumping this but I need some advice... Do you think I need some help about it for not? It is so embarrassing for me and I want to sort this out before it comes betwen us...

Will.
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anyone?

Will.
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hey man it is probably just nerves sex is 90% mental and if you worry about cuming or keeping it up then you will most likley loose it and or not be able to ejaculate. how old are you?? and have you tried different positions?
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Im 15 and I've only ever done it three or four times, but it's still pretty embarrassing cos I come fine on my own when i masterbate. So you just suggest I try and relax?

Will.
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yes believe it or not sex has a lot to due with your mental status if your not trying fo focus and enjoy the sex your body will say screw this and you loose the erection. how long have you tried to have sex for (how long does it last) also does she get off and have an orgasm? finally is she on birth controle of any kind and do you use a condom. if so what type or types do you use.

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B.R.
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I think you got the wrong end of the stick.. This is only from oral and ha****b, and I don't lose my erection, I stay hard but I can't come. She feels bad because now she thinks shes c**p at it as well...

Will.
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nope either way vaginal anal oral hand job the mentality thing is the same and applies to all.... the fact that no condom is used rules out the loss of sensation through that. and even though you dont loose your erection doesnt mean its not nerves. what do you do/think about differently when you masturbate verses her giving you oral/handjobs?
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I don't really think differently at all, obviously it's different because it's her doing it and not me... But I can't really recall me thinking any differently. I might be putting pressure on myself to come a bit cos I didn't the last couple of times so that may be it... Next time I will try and see how it changes and I will tell you n here.

Will.
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yes, do that concentrate on how good it feels and not about actually ejaculating. just focus on how much you love her and how good it feels.
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