Erm well. i dont quite know how to put this buttt...
Me and my gf have been going out for a few months now and we decided to have sex (we were both virgins) so one night everything went according to plan except when we actually got to the penetration bit it was too painfull for her... so we tried again on another night and once again it was far too painfull for her, difference is on this occasion it was very hard to keep and erection (i guess this was mostly to do with both nerves and guilt) so we stopped... and tried again on another night - same thing happened.
So from this we made the agreement were only gunna continue with hands and oral. untill she feels like she wouldnt be in soo much pain.
The time comes, when one day when i was round her house when it was totally unexpected that we were both turned on so decided to give it another go and hallelujah we finally got to the point where i could get half my penis in. But still she felt saw from it but we were both happy with the progress. So that friday night she was round mine and we were both turned on again so we tried again and this time we actually mananged to have a proper sex section -------- BUT this is where the trouble comes... Before i had this gf. My mate had just lost his virginity to this other girl - and only lasted 30 seconds or so (which isnt too bad if you talk to some people) but i wanted to last longer so i started to sort of train myself for endurance.
So we were having sex and it was the most weird but absolutely amazing feeling i have ever felt but it started to run on for a bit... and then a bit longer till it was probably about 2 hours and still I HADNT COME!! and i only got near to coming but no where close to actually doing it!! and the worst thing of all was because we had been going for soo long my penis decided he wasnt needed and started to go soft :/.
So now ive pinned this down to a couple of reasons...
1) The endurance practice was a BADDD idea
2) im too nervous / guilty / thinking too much am i hurting her
3) Im not doing something right lol (i.e. not going fast enough, deep enough etc.)
4) were not doing enough foreplay
5) or im just not relaxed enough
p.s. she does (and shes told me) get pleasure from it so i cant see what im doing wrong :-(
PLEASE GIVE ME SUGGESTIONS TO TRY!! :-)
Me and my gf have been going out for a few months now and we decided to have sex (we were both virgins) so one night everything went according to plan except when we actually got to the penetration bit it was too painfull for her... so we tried again on another night and once again it was far too painfull for her, difference is on this occasion it was very hard to keep and erection (i guess this was mostly to do with both nerves and guilt) so we stopped... and tried again on another night - same thing happened.
So from this we made the agreement were only gunna continue with hands and oral. untill she feels like she wouldnt be in soo much pain.
The time comes, when one day when i was round her house when it was totally unexpected that we were both turned on so decided to give it another go and hallelujah we finally got to the point where i could get half my penis in. But still she felt saw from it but we were both happy with the progress. So that friday night she was round mine and we were both turned on again so we tried again and this time we actually mananged to have a proper sex section -------- BUT this is where the trouble comes... Before i had this gf. My mate had just lost his virginity to this other girl - and only lasted 30 seconds or so (which isnt too bad if you talk to some people) but i wanted to last longer so i started to sort of train myself for endurance.
So we were having sex and it was the most weird but absolutely amazing feeling i have ever felt but it started to run on for a bit... and then a bit longer till it was probably about 2 hours and still I HADNT COME!! and i only got near to coming but no where close to actually doing it!! and the worst thing of all was because we had been going for soo long my penis decided he wasnt needed and started to go soft :/.
So now ive pinned this down to a couple of reasons...
1) The endurance practice was a BADDD idea
2) im too nervous / guilty / thinking too much am i hurting her
3) Im not doing something right lol (i.e. not going fast enough, deep enough etc.)
4) were not doing enough foreplay
5) or im just not relaxed enough
p.s. she does (and shes told me) get pleasure from it so i cant see what im doing wrong :-(
PLEASE GIVE ME SUGGESTIONS TO TRY!! :-)
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Come on man you got a mild dose of Erectile Disfunction its OK but talk to ur Doctor and get the magic blue pill and it will work out
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First off it is not erectile dysfunction (ED is when someone is not able to acchive an erection) or an erection strong enough to have sexual intercourse/
to the original person who posted this topic. if you are still on or around this forum I do have some suggestions if you havent solved your issues by now.
let me know.... thanks
to the original person who posted this topic. if you are still on or around this forum I do have some suggestions if you havent solved your issues by now.
let me know.... thanks
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