Im 16 and think I may have erectile dysfunction

Guest over a year ago

Im 16 and I think I may have erectile dysfunction. Im too afraid to approach my family doctor or even speak to my family. I had never had sex before and was ready to lose my virginity to my girlfriend, she gave me an 'Hard-on', but when i started to penetrate her, my penis started to become less erect and become softer and more 'bendable'. It was no longer stiff enough to enter her vagina and therefore was unable to have sex. It was embarrassing and i dont know whether I have a problem or not? Please help :(

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freshman noise over a year ago

Hi, you have probably just let the pressure get to you about having sex for the first time that's all and because you was probably a bit stressed then it can affect your performance. Next time just let things happen naturally and take your time :-)

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medic-dan109453 over a year ago

Hi Guest,

You don't have ED.

Any anxiety, maybe about pregnancy, can cause you to lose your erection. It's VERY COMMON for a guy to not be able to get erect or lose his erection the first few times. Many "experienced" guys lose their erection, and get it back, during sex.

First off, don't keep worrying about it or you will have a problem, psychological. It's not something to worry about. Just do something else if you lose your erection. Focus on her for a while and let your body just "go for a ride."

You'll get through this, really.

Hope it helps.

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Guest over a year ago

Thank you. I was actually really nervous about it all for the first time, she didnt seem to mind and she was alright with it all which should help. I didnt know if this was natural or whether I did have a problem. Thanks for your help :)

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