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:-( Okay... Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for 3 years now and almost everytime we do it hurts like really bad... I don't really understand... the doctor told me that my uterus was tilted all the way backward and turned completley around... but that doesn't help me... I mean when we do it it feels like my intestines are about to explode... can someone help me figure this out cause i'm really scared...

oh yeah and by the way...
the last couple of times my left side of my hip has really hurt... and the lower part of my stomach...

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hondagirl,
i have the same problem, have had it all my life and still managed to have 5 kids. I have a tipped uterus, which by the way the doc said i may have a hard time conceiving, liar....anyway there are a few positions that won't hurt. Missionary is one, you on the bottom. The second one is you on top, this is a good one because it puts you in the drivers seat. You are the one who controls the show with this one. This position allows you to be able to check the depth by your movements, not so much his. Avoid the doggy style position, this is your partner behind you while your on your hands and knees. He is in complete control and can thrust as hard and as deep as he can, and it hurts like hell. Side by side is good to because once again you can keep the control. Avoid using pillows under your butt for deeper penetration, that can hurt. Standing is good for you, wrap your legs around your partners waist while he rests against a wall, you have the control here again. You can raise or lower yourself as you will and avoid discomfort.
Sex should be pleasurable, not painful. The thought of it hurting can be a hugh distraction and can ruin the moment. Make sure there is plenty of foreplay and you are well lubricated before penetration.
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