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Hi ,

I had sex with my girl friend last night. She is already having Sex expereince and it is my first time. While i am inserting my penis into her Vagina my penis and her vagina are paining a lot .She said that never happened with her when she did sex previosuly and she is saying that I will not be userful for sex. Please suggest is this correct.

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Hi Naren,

Could be a lot of things.

1.  Was she ready?  Was she wet?

2.  You might be "bigger" than her previous partner.

3.  Did you use any extra lube?

She could also be clamping down, possibly due to anxiety or something else.


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1.She is ready and in tense.
2.She said that my penis is also small than previous partner.
3.I didn't use any extra lube.

But she is saying confidently that I will not satisfy my partner even if i Married. I am tensed a lot. Please help me.

Is this a problem from my side?
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No. There is no problem from your side. She is the problem. You can not change the size of your genitals. For her to make such a comment shows her stupidity and selfishness.

Tell her that her breasts are too small and see how she reacts.

If she loved you she would respect you, not disrespect you as she is doing.

Move on and put her behind you. She's not worth it.
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Thank you for the reply.

But I know she loves me a lot n lot. With her such comment I am disappointed and not getting sleep also. She is asking me to consult a doctor. I never thought that I will have a problem like this. She is repeatedly saying that as I am not able to satisfy and even not able to insert properly,(she is getting lot of pain, while inserting and asking me to remove it immediately) i have a serious problem 100 % with my sex life . She said that there are so many people who faces like these kind of problems.

tensed a lot . What to do . Please pls suggest me
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Praveen, it is NOT your problem. SHE needs to see the doctor.

You CAN NOT change your body. You can't make your penis bigger to satisfy her. She needs to relax when you insert your penis and be very wet (lubed). Those are not in your control - they are in HER control.

Her comment shows immaturity. She's blaming you for her problem.
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She is saying that her previous partner is big and even though I am small, I am not able to insert into her vagina that is why i have an issue with my sexual life. She said that she was able to enjoy when penis is even much bigger than me. If I am not able to insert properly, is that my problem?
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Try a different position then. Ask her what works.
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