Will my boyfriend grow?

Dear Hearts

It depends when he started puberty. If he only started a year or so ago, then he might have more growing to do. But are you talking about erect? There's a lot of difference between 3" and 4.5"! from 3 to 4.5 is a 50% increase.

Nevertheless, if you really "love him to death" Why is it you "can't deal with that"?

What size are your breasts? How big is your clitoris?

 

I just cant deal with the fact that its small, but other that I have no problems. & My breasts are C's & my clitoris is what I would say medium sized.

Boys keep on maturing till about 21. 3.5 and 4 inch is NOT small it is quite average actually - usually an erect penis is about 6 inches. But all men are different. Also since it was your first time, this is a pretty harsh reaction. Do I take it that this isn't your first time - as to know what is small and what isn't? We are ALL different and a boys penis - or a girls breasts - are the most upsetting at times of being a teenager. At your age I didn't even know if a penis was small or not. No matter what he's like personally - or how he treats you, you are putting WAY too much pressure on something he has ZERO control over. Think about the tables being turned and he is "disgusted" with you because you have a flat chest! How would that make you feel? When you have a nice partner, and possibly let him go because he hasn't finished growing yet. You WILL live to regret that decision. When you go out with a jerk or an abuser, you will WISH that you had stayed with a decent guy! Hopefully your actions (face, disgust etc) haven't affected him. As this is HUGE for both boys and girls - you can't get past feeling less than when you have sex for the first time! Think about how you would feel if it was the other way?!

Dear Hearts

You are placing too much emphasis on size with no apparent reason. All you say is "I just cant deal with the fact that its small" What is wrong with a fact (although it's not a fact!)? And what would be the problem?

Regarding your clitoris, you have called it medium, but you haven't said what size it is! What does that compare with? What if he thought your clitoris was too small, or perhaps even too big?

Note what Bambi says, and love him for who he is.