Some good advice about coping with penis size:
1) Realize that you can't make any meaningful size changes with any product. Something that important would be much more famous than Viagra.
2) Change what you can. Don't dwell on websites with women that will convince you that you can never make a woman happy. I'm a whopping 4" erect and that is from the tip pressed to the pubic bone.
3) Do a search on the things that attract women to men the most. The top 10 list never mentions penis size. I saw one list with it on the top 15. You will be surprised what turns women on. And if she knows you know what turns her on, then that means self-confidence. That has to be always in the top 5. This is one of the best facts I know. If a women knows that you know where her buttons are, she can know that before you even touch her. Google the top 10 things that make a man attractive to a women.
4) The more you know, the less you will hurt if you have a small one like me. I studied making love for over a year and tested everything I learned out.
5) You can use your penis plus other things. 75% of women can't have an orgasm by penetration unless they get some help by where you place your hands and how she or you stimulates her clit. Please study the clit.
6) I don't recommend porn sites except for the fact of illustration. Porn sites are not even close to the real world. But if you really want the girl to think you are a good lover, go to a good free porn tube site and study what women do to other women "Lesbians" to get themselves satisfied. Talk about "does size matter?" There are some but not nearly as many that need some size. But if lesbians can do it, so can you. Try to find lesbians that are truly making love and not putting on a show for others.
Same with girls masturbating. If you watch the ones that are for real, you will be so much more happy when you see a girl moaning with zero penetration. Some of the videos will disappoint you because they will be looking and sounding like they have a huge penis in them. But the truth becomes reality, when it is a girl carressing her own body and rubbing her own clitoris with her own fingure. And some of them you may laugh at because they may actually put their index finger in a few times.
7) Go to and see if you can find some women in the forum that spill the beans. If you can, PM firefly. She taught me a lot through just PM's. (private messages) One girl (who was very experienced with all sizes) said that her enjoyment increased with the amount of emotions she had for a guy and not the size.
8) Women in general don't really mind what you have. Some will reject a 4" like me. But if she loves or wants the relationship to work, tell each other what feels good and everything will be OK. It's like when you go to a restaurant. Things change with women. One night they could be hungry for steak. Then the next night chicken. So you can say that they like chicken and steak. But if you feed them steak on a night they want chicken then she won't be hungry. Women's sexual appetites change daily. Thats why you need to be an expert on other things besides penetration!
9) When you see the masturbation and the lesbians, you can be a very good lover so I will tell you one of those things that everyone seems to say but you can never figure out. One is the saying, "It's not the size...It's the way you use it." Well what in the heck does that mean? Also "It's not the size, it the motion of the ocean." Well what is that suppose to mean? Did you ever hear anyone say what that actually means?
OK here goes: When you go in and out, as you go in and out, make circles with the bottom of your penis. Just keep on making the base of your penis make circles. To do this involves moving the hips and your butt.
Also, vary the dept penetration speed and angles of penetration....
These things will give you a better sex life. They say the best things in life are free. There is no charge for this post.... Most people do.
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1) Realize that you can't make any meaningful size changes with any product. Something that important would be much more famous than Viagra.
2) Change what you can. Don't dwell on websites with women that will convince you that you can never make a woman happy. I'm a whopping 4" erect and that is from the tip pressed to the pubic bone.
3) Do a search on the things that attract women to men the most. The top 10 list never mentions penis size. I saw one list with it on the top 15. You will be surprised what turns women on. And if she knows you know what turns her on, then that means self-confidence. That has to be always in the top 5. This is one of the best facts I know. If a women knows that you know where her buttons are, she can know that before you even touch her. Google the top 10 things that make a man attractive to a women.
4) The more you know, the less you will hurt if you have a small one like me. I studied making love for over a year and tested everything I learned out.
5) You can use your penis plus other things. 75% of women can't have an orgasm by penetration unless they get some help by where you place your hands and how she or you stimulates her clit. Please study the clit.
6) I don't recommend porn sites except for the fact of illustration. Porn sites are not even close to the real world. But if you really want the girl to think you are a good lover, go to a good free porn tube site and study what women do to other women "Lesbians" to get themselves satisfied. Talk about "does size matter?" There are some but not nearly as many that need some size. But if lesbians can do it, so can you. Try to find lesbians that are truly making love and not putting on a show for others.
Same with girls masturbating. If you watch the ones that are for real, you will be so much more happy when you see a girl moaning with zero penetration. Some of the videos will disappoint you because they will be looking and sounding like they have a huge penis in them. But the truth becomes reality, when it is a girl carressing her own body and rubbing her own clitoris with her own fingure. And some of them you may laugh at because they may actually put their index finger in a few times.
7) Go to and see if you can find some women in the forum that spill the beans. If you can, PM firefly. She taught me a lot through just PM's. (private messages) One girl (who was very experienced with all sizes) said that her enjoyment increased with the amount of emotions she had for a guy and not the size.
8) Women in general don't really mind what you have. Some will reject a 4" like me. But if she loves or wants the relationship to work, tell each other what feels good and everything will be OK. It's like when you go to a restaurant. Things change with women. One night they could be hungry for steak. Then the next night chicken. So you can say that they like chicken and steak. But if you feed them steak on a night they want chicken then she won't be hungry. Women's sexual appetites change daily. Thats why you need to be an expert on other things besides penetration!
9) When you see the masturbation and the lesbians, you can be a very good lover so I will tell you one of those things that everyone seems to say but you can never figure out. One is the saying, "It's not the size...It's the way you use it." Well what in the heck does that mean? Also "It's not the size, it the motion of the ocean." Well what is that suppose to mean? Did you ever hear anyone say what that actually means?
OK here goes: When you go in and out, as you go in and out, make circles with the bottom of your penis. Just keep on making the base of your penis make circles. To do this involves moving the hips and your butt.
Also, vary the dept penetration speed and angles of penetration....
These things will give you a better sex life. They say the best things in life are free. There is no charge for this post.... Most people do.
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Thanks for sharing your insights, penisblittle.
You have assumed that most men reading this will be experiencing sex with a woman, but otherwise, you seem to be very generous and right on in your tips.
Perhaps next posting you might share your age or your background, as you say you have studied making love for a year. Perhaps your age and experience level might help convince some readers of the extent of your background.
Porn sites and alternativePenis sites won't be for everyone, but your points are well taken.
Again, thanks for sharing.
You have assumed that most men reading this will be experiencing sex with a woman, but otherwise, you seem to be very generous and right on in your tips.
Perhaps next posting you might share your age or your background, as you say you have studied making love for a year. Perhaps your age and experience level might help convince some readers of the extent of your background.
Porn sites and alternativePenis sites won't be for everyone, but your points are well taken.
Again, thanks for sharing.
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I did this studying on my own on the internet. A moderator pm's me and said do not put web sitss and talking to women who have been kind enough to help guys like me out.
I tested my studies with my wife. I am married over 20 years. Gosh that ought to qualify me for most sexual things:)
I am a Medical Technologist by trade. I am not a stud, but I know where all the buttons are on a girl now.
Oh I am 54 years old. I know, that's old. But I survived life and have a successful marriage with a 4" penis.
If I can, anyone can. And I am going to shock you guys and you wont' believe me when I tell you this. If you search for the top 10 things that attract a women, a sense of humor is in the majority of lists in the top 5. If you had a penis like mine, a sense of humor comes almost
naturally. How do you know that you have a small penis? When your girlfriend asks why you are having so much trouble gettig an erection when you have already have had one for over 10 minutes.
I tested my studies with my wife. I am married over 20 years. Gosh that ought to qualify me for most sexual things:)
I am a Medical Technologist by trade. I am not a stud, but I know where all the buttons are on a girl now.
Oh I am 54 years old. I know, that's old. But I survived life and have a successful marriage with a 4" penis.
If I can, anyone can. And I am going to shock you guys and you wont' believe me when I tell you this. If you search for the top 10 things that attract a women, a sense of humor is in the majority of lists in the top 5. If you had a penis like mine, a sense of humor comes almost
naturally. How do you know that you have a small penis? When your girlfriend asks why you are having so much trouble gettig an erection when you have already have had one for over 10 minutes.
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Moderator... I was a moderator at a major penis forum for almost a year. It is a totally "for health" like this one. I wish that I could at least suggest to them the site. I have nothing for sale but a lot of advice to give.
The reason why I am no longer a moderator is because I went over to the women's part of the site to try to help them with breast size, and I was attacked by them until I had to leave.
But isn't it true that breast size is not a make or break deal? Most models have small breasts. And just like women's breast, I would like big ones, yet why would I reject a girl for her breast size? It would seem ridiculous to me. And I suppose that's how it goes with women. Some women got to have a big penis. But can you imagine a girl rejecting you for your penis size. That would be ridiculous because she already knows that she needs no penetration to get an orgasm from when she has masturbated.
The reason why I am no longer a moderator is because I went over to the women's part of the site to try to help them with breast size, and I was attacked by them until I had to leave.
But isn't it true that breast size is not a make or break deal? Most models have small breasts. And just like women's breast, I would like big ones, yet why would I reject a girl for her breast size? It would seem ridiculous to me. And I suppose that's how it goes with women. Some women got to have a big penis. But can you imagine a girl rejecting you for your penis size. That would be ridiculous because she already knows that she needs no penetration to get an orgasm from when she has masturbated.
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I agree. Though i enjoy large breasts, I also enjoy sex with a woman, and have, that has almost none. As you say, runway models often have small to medium breasts. So do athletic women. Look at the ladies on our 2012 volleyball team. But sex with a small breasted woman is great. I have a small penis. But when two people are sexually aroused and finally reveal themselves to each other. She isn't going to get dressed and say your penis is too little for me, and I'm not going to leave accusing her of having no breasts. It doesn't really matter at the end of the day.
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Okay, I just saw this post though it was posted over a year ago. I would like to say that having a small penis is no problem if both people know what they are doing. This is a time when ladies first is absolutely the wrong thing. If the man is big, then by all means you let the woman have her orgasm first so that she is lubricated and the vagina is wider and more able to take the penis. On the other hand, when the man is smaller, that is not a good idea. He needs to get in there before she has her orgasm so that she is smaller inside and she should help him out further by basically doing a kegel exercise and making her vagina even smaller and narrower. If she will do this for you, you should be totally fine and if she won't then she really wasn't going to be a caring lover anyway.
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