Last tuesday The girlfriend and i happened to chance upon alone time with one another and wouldn't you know it, the dirty happened. We had normal sex (nothing new tried) and both seemed to have enjoyed it (so there was no pain during the act). Shortly after the two of us had finished she began to complain of a sharp pain just below her stomach. A stomach ache is what i had first thought it to be (though odd still). As time went on the pain didn't go away and after having given her some stomach relaxants the pain had yet to go away still. it is now Wednesday night and the pain has yet to go away she says. She has been in a decent ammount of pain (to the point where pressure hurts considerably on the spot). We are unsure to the cause of this and are troubled some. She has an irregular period so it is hard to determine whether or not it'll come that month however she is about due for one. She says it feels something like cramps however she has never had this sort of pain before. She claims it is a sharp pain (that has dulled some since tuesday) around her bladder section. In addition, today she has experienced vaginal swelling. We had also taken note that during sex i had managed to "poke" pretty far into her which she had pointed out had created a quick, dull pain that soon disapeared after we were done. bruising maybe?
Normally we wouldn't be too concerned about all of this however after having had our fun for the first round we decided to try for a second some hours later, this time however the condom did break though thankfully not during or after a climax. At this we decided to cease and resort to milder forms of Sex (oral and the likes). Around the time we had started her pain had subsided some either by distraction or who knows. We had also had time together a couple weeks ago which brought about our attention however nothing irregular happened. The Condom held in place and didn't break. ( I do also recognize that pre ejaculation or 'pre-cum' can cause trouble if you're unlucky enough)
Though it has ceased to go away within the past twenty four hours we are worried, as it is possible to become pregnant via pre-ejaculation excretes.
I do understand that it is most likely too early for any symptoms to appear but i figured i would post here to ease her mind. We're hoping the pain will go away soon but fear is fear.
Oh a side note, we have both been tested and are free of any and all STDs so we know those are not an issue here. We do have the option to obtain the morning after pill which can be taken up to a few days after the scare though it will be quite a pain to get ahold of one here at the moment so we want to make sure before we get ourselves over our heads.
Thank you for any and all help.
Oh, and another note - The last couple of times after sex she would complain of a mild stomach ache. Could she be allergic to the latex possibly? (just a ponder there)
Normally we wouldn't be too concerned about all of this however after having had our fun for the first round we decided to try for a second some hours later, this time however the condom did break though thankfully not during or after a climax. At this we decided to cease and resort to milder forms of Sex (oral and the likes). Around the time we had started her pain had subsided some either by distraction or who knows. We had also had time together a couple weeks ago which brought about our attention however nothing irregular happened. The Condom held in place and didn't break. ( I do also recognize that pre ejaculation or 'pre-cum' can cause trouble if you're unlucky enough)
Though it has ceased to go away within the past twenty four hours we are worried, as it is possible to become pregnant via pre-ejaculation excretes.
I do understand that it is most likely too early for any symptoms to appear but i figured i would post here to ease her mind. We're hoping the pain will go away soon but fear is fear.
Oh a side note, we have both been tested and are free of any and all STDs so we know those are not an issue here. We do have the option to obtain the morning after pill which can be taken up to a few days after the scare though it will be quite a pain to get ahold of one here at the moment so we want to make sure before we get ourselves over our heads.
Thank you for any and all help.
Oh, and another note - The last couple of times after sex she would complain of a mild stomach ache. Could she be allergic to the latex possibly? (just a ponder there)
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Well, If I were you, and I'm not doctor by any means!!! I'd take her to the dr. or e.r. . She could have an infection, bruising, or tubal pregnancy, or even a cyst. Either way, pain for this long is not normal. I know, personally, latex allergies cause itching and burning of the vagina..not the stomach pains. You seem to care for this woman and good for you for being responsible about sex!!! Get her to a Dr. Let us know!!! Best of luck!
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I get that to!!!!!! Only recently and only for a couple of minutes after. But I asked about it and was told it could be Endiometriosis, as that is common in young women. Have to see a doctor to know for sure. Not sure how bad it is, think it depends on the person. But you could look it up, see if it fits.
Good luck.
Good luck.
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I'm not a doctor. But I am a female who goes through this pain after sex alot. I have something called Adenomyosis. I also have cysts on both ovaries and i have a tilted uterus..i am on birth control To keep the cysts from getting larger.
this can also cause fertility problems...
for me the cramp-like pain is because of the cysts. for her it could be anything from, policystic ovarian syndrome .. also known as PCOS. Endiometriosis is also a possible factor. I would suggest her to go to her Gyno and getting blood work done, and if necessary a pelvic ultrasound.
I hope his information helps.
this can also cause fertility problems...
for me the cramp-like pain is because of the cysts. for her it could be anything from, policystic ovarian syndrome .. also known as PCOS. Endiometriosis is also a possible factor. I would suggest her to go to her Gyno and getting blood work done, and if necessary a pelvic ultrasound.
I hope his information helps.
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couldn't it be caused by just ruff sex? if so the swelling should reduce after 2 to 3 days.
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I've often had sharp pains as you describe if my cervix is bumped during sex. During a particularly rough episode, I got contractions (I guess similar to in childbirth), but these went away after a few hours. Different positions and different times in the cycle seem to have an impact on this.
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I sometimes get this pain, rarely but still sometimes, first time i had it was a couple of years ago and it lasted a good few hours, i didnt have it again until about 2 months ago with my current partner and that again lasted a few (painful) hours, and now i have it again and it is worse , feels like bad bad cramp.Contractions even. I don't suffer from period pains but i can imagine this it what it feels like for people who get it bad.
I have noticed that it is usually after not 'rough' as such but more active sex and the pain usually starts a couple of hours after and builds up before going away.
It hurts so much but the only thing i do is take paracetamol and get my hot water bottle on it. i find myself creasing over if i dont tke a seat or lie down.
I think maybe it is bruising or swelling, it is the only thing i can think of, but if anyone else has any ideas?......?
I have noticed that it is usually after not 'rough' as such but more active sex and the pain usually starts a couple of hours after and builds up before going away.
It hurts so much but the only thing i do is take paracetamol and get my hot water bottle on it. i find myself creasing over if i dont tke a seat or lie down.
I think maybe it is bruising or swelling, it is the only thing i can think of, but if anyone else has any ideas?......?
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I have been dealin with the same problems since august and i went to see a obgyn and he had to do surgry to find out what was the matter and we found out that it was little holes that was created and it was on the outside of the uterus walls... get it checked asap
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I have experienced this on occasion... I went to the Dr. after the first time because the pain was excruciating. Apparently I had a cyst that ruptured...
I still get it from time to time, but not nearly as bad (may have something to do with the size of the cyst?)
It's such a shame that such a pleasurable event can result in such pain afterward!
I still get it from time to time, but not nearly as bad (may have something to do with the size of the cyst?)
It's such a shame that such a pleasurable event can result in such pain afterward!
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Please do not judge Im 16 and I had sex for the first time and I'm having the same problem but mines lasted for a week now! It's severe pain I've been laying in the bed crying over it and I don't wanna tell my parents because they'll be disappoint in me. And I don't need a lecture from my mother about sex again! I don't know if I should be worried. I'm Scared because I've been researching information and found out things like this only last for 2 to 3 days well mines lasted for a week now! I'm really nervous that something might be wrong will it go away? How long will it take? Is there anything I can do to get rid of it quicker? What caused this? Please Help!!
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I had sex with my boyfriend 5days ago can someone please tell me why the pit of my stomach still feel sore and painful
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