Am i actually a virgin still or not?

u did but its ok dnt worry.im 13 i lost am virginty to a 16 but dnt worry it feels gudd.but have sex fully until u kno he loves.he has to eat u out first before frikkin all the way thats wat i did.16 yr old he ate me out,we cuddled,he ate me out again and then we f**k for almost and hour 

I believe virginity is whatever you feel it means. The word itself is derived from the Latin virgo, which means "sexually inexperienced woman". Some religions/people say that if you even have oral sex or just do more then light making out, you are no longer a virgin or "clean" which is basically the same thing. Also some religions/groups feel you can be a "born-again virgin." A doctor might say it has to do with when your hymen is broken but because of so many things that could break it from a bicycle accident to rape, I would like to think that you lose your virginity once you consent to having full sex where the male ejaculates (whether inside you or pull out). My first sexual experience was very much like yours and I was very uncomfortable with the idea because although I consented, it wasn't what I wanted to do in my heart and it was awkward and he entered twice before I asked him to stop. The next time I had sex, a year later, there was a lot more blood than my first... encounter. So I chose to think that the previous experience was no more than oral sex or a guy using his fingers in the sense of importance compared to the intercourse I had later. I did not enjoy sex for a few years after that until I found someone I loved and it didn't hurt at all and after that, when, how, and who I lost my virginity to was not important at all to me.

Technically, you lost your virginity.

Still, it's what you make of it. Zayray has a good look at what it means to be a virgin.