Am I still a virgin?

I am really sorry to say that she did take your virginity and that that is DEFINITELY rape. I am also extremely sorry that she did that to you and I really hope you get over her.

Sex is penetration. If your penis was in her, that's what sex is.

And please don't feel bad for what you did to her. SHE was in the wrong and I really think you should have pressed charges.

As most of the people have already said, yes it was rape. I'm really sorry that this happened to you. I sort of understand what you're going through. I have a good friend who was raped and lost her virginity that way. The reason I'm telling you this is because she decided that she was still a virgin. Yes, her hymen was broken and she experienced penetration, but she didn't do so willingly.

She decided that losing her virginity wasn't a physical thing, but a mental and emotional change.

I believe that's what sex is about; It's about the mental and emotional connection. So, when I read you're story, I still see you as a virgin. You never lost your virginity because you never gave it up mentally or emotionally. I hope this viewpoint will help you cope with the aftermath.

If you need an outlet to pour your emotions, I'm here. You can email me, and I'll help any way I can.

In my opinion, Yes, you are still a virgin. I believe that you are a virgin until you willingly make love to your partner.

That was rather hilarious, you are no longer a virign, see you at the fiery gates of hell son, don't worry Kiera Knightley and Natalie Portman will be heading there as well (they don't believe in god) so they can ride us both for eternity ;-) not to worry though because that stuff is all fiction anyway