ive been reading a lot of threads on here, and we discuss it all the time. we're both 18.. sex isn't an option, but we've done everything else (except anal)
i can orgasm on my own...but he just cant do it for me.. dont get me wrong, fingering/oral feels great! but the oral stimulation i give to myself.. feels wayy better than what he does? and usually it doesnt take me too long to climax while masturbatingi dont WANT to masturbate, but it's frustrating sometimes when he finishes but i dont..it's frustrating for both of us, and it upsets him a lot.
i dont want to use toys or anything..and ive tried to guide im and stufff.. still feels great, but its not the same? also, a lot of people say 'help him out' e.g. while he's fingering, you rub the clit,its so weird but when i am.. that sometimes takes me forever too?like.. i fee l like im stuck still on the peak of a rollercaster :(whats wrong with me :( any advice? we've been together for over a year now.. and yeah nothing :(
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Oral stimulation you give yourself?
I sure would like to see that.
It sounds to me like you are blocking it mentally. Maybe by concentrating on it so much. When you said it sometimes it takes longer if you work your clit yourself while he's doing you it certainly sounds like it's your mind blocking it.
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it's definitely not my mind :( i dont know what else it could be?
and i dont know how to stop him getting so worked up over it.. cos it just upsets me too :(
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