My boyfriend can't make me orgasm

HI, firstly tell me please how old are you?

Just keep trying. That's the fun part of sex, you keep practicing until you get the results you want. But you have to be into it in your head too. If you're busy thinking about something else while he's working on you, you are quite likely killing your chances.

If your clit is out where he can kiss and lick it he should be able to get you where you want to go. If it's hidden it's a lot more difficult. If you enjoy having something inside you while doing it he can insert his fingers or whatever you like. But it takes time to warm you up. He needs to touch and caress you everywhere it feels good for you and kiss you everywhere too. I think Dr. Oz said it best: foreplay for a woman is being touched and kissed all over her body while foreplay for a man is having his penis touched --- or --- thinking about having his penis touched.

While he's doing you it's not against the rules to be dreaming about someone else who turns you on. Just don't tell HIM.