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Okay, so... here goes...

The majority of my family have told my parents that they think I'm a lesbian, not sure why apart from my appearance - short hair, don't do dresses/skirts or frills, biker boots, leather, skinny jackets, etc. Think the 'bad girl' stereotype.

I feel physically attracted to both men and women, though women more so. So I'm pretty sure that I'm not straight. I do find one or two of my female friends attractive, the same with the male ones.

I don't get the same shivers when I lock eyes with a guy, as when I do a girl.

I can't picture myself with a man as I am rather assertive and I think I would feel more comfortable with a woman.

But, I believe that gender or sexuality isn't a big issue, that it doesn't matter your sexuality, it matters who you are. Though I would like to know a definition for what I feel so I can ''come out' to my parents.

I have never actually been in a relationship, or been kissed, so could I just be curious?

I don't know. Bi? Pansexual?

Those are probably the most likely ;P

Oh, I'm only 15 by the way, so experimentation is pretty much out of the question - as is 'just get laid and see which you prefer.' which was some advice I got somewhere ;P

 

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Ur prob bi. All the lesbians I know, knew they were for sure lesbians at ur age. Keep in mind my group of friends r in their late 20s n early 30s so it wasn't just curiosity or a "phase." Hope I helped :)
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I know how you feel. I'm 16 and I was struggling with the same question for a few years. From what you said, it sounds like you're bisexual with a preference for women. :) There's nothing wrong with that. And maybe down the line, you'll find out that you were just bi-curious and are lesbian or heterosexual (straight). For right now, don't worry about choosing a sexual identity and just enjoy being able to have feelings for anybody you please. :)
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