ok im a 18 year old gal who is overweight and my boyfriend wants me to go on top (cow girl) im not sure how exactly to do this i tried once and it was bad....i was ashame.......i need help.....what to do differently
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I think this position is difficult for the best of people although I'm overweight to so maybe its just us big girls.
I have eventually mastered this position but failed several times before hand. It just takes practice. Although even after mastering it and being able to please my husband with it, I'm still not able to come in this position. My g-spot being at the front of my vagina, it just doesn't hit it. On the rare occasion that we do cow girl style, it is for his benefit only and being a man who cares about my pleasure, he almost never asks for it because he knows that it doesn't work for me.
Good luck with it and remember that practice makes perfect!
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hey kisses 101 dont worry.First of all its completely fine to be overweight in fact that is what the man wants (curves) and besides it should not prevent you from trying the cow girl style. jus remember that u balance yourself right and dont remain stiff. u keep on moving along with direction of the penis and it will all b fine. the moment u feel intimidated just let ur guy know about it. there is nothing to be done forcefully and if it happens that way u will never get it right. good luck!!!!!!! u will do fine!!!
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here thanks so much....well next time i try it i'll let you guy no how it worked out ok....
hopefully this time i'll be more relaxed and comfortable.........and i fell bad since he has to do all the work.....all i really do is oral....so i really want to master this soon he ways pleases me and never fails short so i just want to return the favor.............
i think that i could be better on a couch since its stable and i can hold on to him or the back of the couch
cant wait till we get a chance to try again but i always chicken out
thanks so much for the advise again.....
hopefully this time i'll be more relaxed and comfortable.........and i fell bad since he has to do all the work.....all i really do is oral....so i really want to master this soon he ways pleases me and never fails short so i just want to return the favor.............
i think that i could be better on a couch since its stable and i can hold on to him or the back of the couch
cant wait till we get a chance to try again but i always chicken out
thanks so much for the advise again.....
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I'm in the age of 20. I should say I never into sex perhaps I am afraid of doing it and giving birth but I want to test it. I am shy and afraid to show may real emotion towards my partner. we discuss this issue often in a way of joke but we never get in through.
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@kickers so you never had sex or did you have and your just shy about doin it again......are you also over weight????
i remember when i lost my virginity i want to keep the cover on for the whole time but eventually he took it completely off the bed....i was A LOT smaller then and i hardly had stretch marks...im 18 and i was never pregnant and im loaded with stretch marks.....i was always ashamed of showing my self to my boyfriend......but after a while i realized he knew what i look like anyways so why try to hid it.......
im not happy with my weight but i am the way am right now and if he has a problem with that he needs to find someone who who pleases him...
if you both do have sex are you doin it willingly or is your partner forcing you to do so........
i cant wait to try coygirl on my man but im freakin out wat if i mess up....
i remember when i lost my virginity i want to keep the cover on for the whole time but eventually he took it completely off the bed....i was A LOT smaller then and i hardly had stretch marks...im 18 and i was never pregnant and im loaded with stretch marks.....i was always ashamed of showing my self to my boyfriend......but after a while i realized he knew what i look like anyways so why try to hid it.......
im not happy with my weight but i am the way am right now and if he has a problem with that he needs to find someone who who pleases him...
if you both do have sex are you doin it willingly or is your partner forcing you to do so........
i cant wait to try coygirl on my man but im freakin out wat if i mess up....
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@ kisses nope! we've never been into sex. not over weight 51kg as of now.
as of now I'm in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. we've "never" been in to sex. we are in a scenario which they say (dual masturbation)i guess?! I just hold his penis and giving him sexual pleasure, while he is holding mine and my breast!
As of now, I really don't know if I can consider myself still a "virgin"if we get into this action., actually the only thing we can do is just as that while doing it both naked, sometimes he inserted his "finger" (yes finger-only one) towards mine.
Dear, what can you yes about it? I'm I still virgin?
about stretch marks that you said.. You have that because of sex or because of your monthly period?
I have minor stretch marks at my buttocks, is it true if you made masturbation often it can leads to a darker appearance of you vaginal? thanks!
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yea your still a virgin........sometime i wish i still was but the again im happy i got it over with......
in your case you are worried about becoming pregnant.......
i remember askin my teacher it she ever had sex before she got married and she say no but she said she had oral sex......
most ppl don't have REAL SEX before marrriage but they do touch each other and have oral sex and stuff...........
im from the Caribbean and they say here in the tropics that women tend to have darker vaginas......
but they say Indian women as well *which is me tend to have darker vagina too....
shaving also leads to the darking of the vagina......
i really dont know bout masturbating
also under my arms are darker than my normal skin colour and my legs rub a little to its bit dark on my upper thigh
in your case you are worried about becoming pregnant.......
i remember askin my teacher it she ever had sex before she got married and she say no but she said she had oral sex......
most ppl don't have REAL SEX before marrriage but they do touch each other and have oral sex and stuff...........
im from the Caribbean and they say here in the tropics that women tend to have darker vaginas......
but they say Indian women as well *which is me tend to have darker vagina too....
shaving also leads to the darking of the vagina......
i really dont know bout masturbating
also under my arms are darker than my normal skin colour and my legs rub a little to its bit dark on my upper thigh
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you cant knock yourself when you've never really tried it yah noe. If he is in pain or tells you to get off that thats not the right position for you two. Just because your overweight doesn't mean you cant have fun!!!
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