bleeding a few days after losing virginity

I lost my virginity about 6 days ago. It did hurt a lot for me. and at the time there was alot of blood. I was also worried, because i have continued to bleed. Not a lot, but i didnt know what was normal. All the comments really helped me understand that each girl is different, and i guess it depends on them.

Me and my fiancé had decided that we'll do it after marriage cause it just few month we went out for hole day and it happens...Even i don't know whether i lost my virginity or not...... i didn't bleed at all but i had bad pain in my abdominal.... he went in and out 2 times and we stopped cause its started to pain than he coundt go ahead anymore.. we did it before my periods..now i am just worried for am i lost my virginity?? or still i m virgin..and next time i am going to get same..again?? pls. explain!! Help!!

wel i lost mine a few hours ago,
and i started bleeding as soon as he put it in and we stoped,
its been really heavy ever since.
im getin reli worried becasue my frends told me they bled, but after the sex and only for an hour or so and not very heavy.
should i be wooried??
i jus a feeling its not goin to stop!
x

hi, i was with a guy approx 3 weeks ago and basically he fingered me. it was my first time and wen i got home i noticed a spot of blood and i've been so itchy and irritated since, also thers a little pink flap thing that i can c and im freaking out! have i lost my virginity wats happened???

well, i lost my virginity a few months ago. im 16.
it hurt a little, but only for a few seconds and everything was fine. Ive had sex alot since then and All my other times since then have been all good and fine.
So it all depends on YOU. no one can give anyone advice on this kinda thing because everyone is completely different.

hi i am 13 years old and my first time was december 28th a day b4 my b-daii outside at tha park behind tha high skool it was wit this kid named justin....and all these ppl are talkin about how they were bleedin so much buh i was only bleedin 4 not that long like maybe 10 minutes and tha next day i wasnt bleeding either so i jus think that u ppl are weird...u ppl are grown and im a kid and i handled thing bettah then u did and u guys are talkin about how painful it was and it didnt even hurt...maybe u jus have 2 noe how 2 handle pain..hehe :] :-D

I am 21 years old and I just lost my virginity 3 days ago. It was the worse experience of my life. There was ALOT of blood and pain. The blood saturated what i was laying on the pain was so bad I had my own hand over my mouth it was bad lol........i continued to bleed for about 2 days like I had my period. The second time was better well worth the pain for the first time

Lady Jenavi wrote:

Guest wrote:

i am 21 and i have bf for 2 years now
we want to have sex but i am virgin yet but whenever we try i am getting stressed
and i am starting to cry i am afraid that it hurts and i dont want to bleed alot
so how should we do this
i dont want to feel bad when i am doing it? :?

First off, being scared and tense will ensure that it will hurt and you will bleed a lot. I would suggest some other form of sex play first, probably most easily oral sex or "fingering". Don't go for anal sex...it will hurt much worse than losing your virginity!

I am trusting that you truly love and care about your bf, which will help. I am also assuming he loves you and cares about you just as much. He should not be pressuring you, which will of course make you feel stressed and feel like crying. If you are not ready, he should understand. If not, you should be reconsidering your relationship. It sounds to me like you are not ready, so educate yourself first, before agreeing to anything. It will hurt, and you will bleed, if you are not comfortable with the whole thing.

So get yourself comfortable first, even if you have to pleasure yourself beforehand. If he's not comfortable with that...TOUGH! Although most guys shouldn't care...they're very visual creatures. I am of course assuming that you know what your sexual needs are...like where and how you like to be touched, and how to bring yourself to orgasm. If you can't do it for yourself, you will never be able to help him please you so you both have a satisfying experience. Knowledge is the only thing that will help you with your fears about this...so find out as much as you can.

There are some good medical/sexual manuals out there (that you might only find in an adult bookstore, so don't be ashamed to go in and buy one). Make sure the manual (or any info you find on the subject) uses proper terminology, and you can be pretty sure that the information will be valid. If some of the terms and ideas make you squeamish, then you will have to do something about "toughening" yourself up, because the real thing is a lot..."worse" if you will. If you can't read about, how do you ever expect to do it in real life? Please educate yourself dear. It will make it easier and a lot less scary.

I agree entirely. Sex should be something that is made comfortable for BOTH involved. Your guy should be aware of the fact that your first time will possibly be uncomfortable (although mine only involved very minimal pain) and try to factor this into whatever he does. If you're really terrified and unsure then this is a sure sign you aren't really ready to have sex. Some people say that you should be married to have sex, I disagree entirely. If the time is right for you, and you know in your heart this is the right person, then go for it! Sex is meant to be FUN, not scary or uncomfortable. It's a physical thing which (in my opinion) shouldn't just happen with someone that you are legally bound to - sex often brings couples closer. Why save this vitally important step in getting to know one another til after marriage?! It doesn't make sense to me.

yes u did lose it and not ur not getting pregnant unless he came inside of u

When i lost my virginity i didnt bleed. is that normal?

I lost my virginity with my boyfriend last week. we almost did it about a month ago but stopped after a few seconds cause i wasn't sure and it hurt a little (it was startling). but last week we did it, he went slow and it really didnt hurt much at all. i didn't bleed at all. does that mean my hymmen didnt break? is his penis too small? (haha) no, but seriusly. we've done it a few more times because i wanted to experiment with it and i think each time we do it it feels better.

We've used condoms but once we didn't have one and we did it anyways and he pulled out. i know that this really isnt safe at all, but he's been tested and doesnt have any diseases. do you think i should tell him we can never do that again? or is it okay sometimes?

by the way, for any girls considering it, my advice is wait till you are REALLY REAALLY sure because when its with someone you are confortably with its much better. and if you aren't sure, don't do it. you won't be missing out on very much.

Hello everyone was just reading you alls comments they been really helpfull. me and my girlfriend recently you know... and i just been worried cause she was having a lot of pain. It was like a a test run for us, i feel like a brute. it was a short expireince but i could tell it was hurting her i felt so bad i didn't mind stopping. i guess we both didn't know what to expect. they need to prepare us a little more with this lol... i think they want us to freak out so much the first time we wont want to do this again.

hi everyone..just want to ask,
coz..me and my bf juz did the "thing" a couple of days ago..
and it was my first time..as in first time.. in all aspect of sex [lol]
i felt the penetration.. the hurt and all..
but i didn't bleed.. i was curious why, ... is that normal?

i am 17 years old... and i lost my virginity when i was 14... i dont want to lose it.. but someone took it away by force... i did bleed but just in the process of penetration...it really huts so much.... i really cried along with the wrath i feel... maybe that is why it also hurts a lot.. but bygones are bygones and i think bleeding is just normal dont worry so much about it :-)

Bleeding after your first time is normal, you may bleed for a day or 2. Also you may bleed after the first couple times you have sex.
Thanks !!! XD