:cry:Hi i am 14 years old i want to ask that is virginity is compulsory in womens.i have did sex with my husband for the first time i feel pain but not so much and after sex i didn't bleed.I at once standup and started walking.My husband told ne that you have no virginity and no tightness.you have did sex before and you are doing sex regularly not with me with some one else and your widh of vaginia is very broad.And the person who is doing sex with you his paniz is much thicker and long than mine.but it is not so i am not doing sex with anyone except my husband and according to him my vagina is increasing day by day.Please believe me it was my first time that i have did sex with my husband.Please please help me out my husband don't believe me but he loves me alot please help me.
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Well im 18 and I lost my virginity like a month ago to this really great guy who i guess had his experiences. It hurt but He fingered me alot for like 2 weekes b4 we actually has sex. I think that the mor you get fingered b4 actually intercourse the less painful it is. but weve had sex a few times after that and it still doesnt feel good like it doenst hurt but it doesnt feel like the best thing in the world either? I dont kno what the problem is tho.
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I just lost my virginity three days ago i think? He went in but not all the way in. I was on top pushing it in. But it wouldn't work. Afterwards i bleed only a little bit. I don't think he popped my hymen. Cause if it popped i would have felt it. I think im still a virgin ?
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hi im buffy im 15 n i wanna have sex bbut im realy scared that it would hirt alot n if its ganna hirt mi that much then i reather not have sex... so my question is how much it hurts to u please email **** thanks for the help!
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hi i slipped in the bathroom during taking a shower and i bleeded so i'm afraid if i'd lost my virginity but at the same time my period is close and it's not the first time my period arrives while i'm having a shower so what do i do?plz some help
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I lost my virginity 2 weeks ago this coming Wednesday. When we had sex, I was bleeding. He didn't seem to have a problem with it, but I was worried that something went wrong. I'd heard before that you could bleed when he penetrates you, but I always heard stories that you won't bleed. My friend didn't bleed when she had sex her first time.
P.S. I had gotten off my period 2 days before hand.
P.S. I had gotten off my period 2 days before hand.
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I lost my virginity last summer. I was 17. It was kind of weird because me and my boyfriend were in a lake at church camp. Ha. But it was only a second and it was at like 7 in the morning. I was really hot and so was he so I told him to shove it in and he did and it hurt like hell. I didn't notice any bleeding or anything, but I was super sore down there. Then I realized later that I was bleeding when I went to the bathroom. So I knew it was normal. Then I realized I stained my swim suit. Whoops. Later though, he came up to my house for mid-winter break from school and we bought condoms and tried again. It hurt a lot but I didn't bleed that time. We did it like everyday for the whole week so that I could get used to it. I'm still not really used to it, but it doesn't hurt as bad. We only see each other like once a month because he lives downstate. He's coming up hopefully in another week and we plan on spending a whole day getting used to having sex. Ha. :-)
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believe me its your virginity it hurts like hell. You probably have been damaged on the inside because its the first time and its very tender so you need not worry sometimes you can bleed more than three days. You have to have gentle sex until you virgina exand to his size and then and only then you can have rouhg sex but you will have minor pain dont worry you will be enjoying it.
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hey im 16, I been reading the responses to this topic, and I'm really curious about having sex with my boyfriend. Is very frustrating to me because I been thinking alot about it, would it really hurt?? ( i mean bad)............
My friends, also told me, that it was normal to feel, [nervous], Could i please have some help with this... thank u !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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My friends, also told me, that it was normal to feel, [nervous], Could i please have some help with this... thank u !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Hi im 20 and i didnt lose my virginity yet even though we tried 3 times with my bf but i stoped him because i couldn't stand that pain, it hurt me a lotttt. when we tried for the first time i bleed a little. next times we tried i didn't let my BF to do because it hurt me very very very muchhhh.
i dont know what to do please can you give me any advise which position is prefered for the first time, or is there any medical that can help me not to feel pain. please help me :-D
thanks a lottttt
i dont know what to do please can you give me any advise which position is prefered for the first time, or is there any medical that can help me not to feel pain. please help me :-D
thanks a lottttt
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Hello, I am not sure if i lost my virginity. LOL i was with my BF last week and he was fingering me. then i got really wet and he put his penis on the outside of my vagina and then he went in a bit .... it happened so fast that he came inside me. we had talked about me not loosing my virginity yet. but i didnt even feel him going inside a lot...when all of sudden i felt him discharging. IT DID NOT HURT AND I DID NOT BLEED. so my question is??? even if he comes inside me.......would i still be a virgin if he did not brake anything?? and how do i make sure. sorry im just confused and ignorant about this. im going crazy just thinking i might get pregnant.
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i just turned 18 and i lost my virginity about two weeks ago, and it was his first time as well.
since we did it in a karaoke room we had our clothes on (i had a dress on) and he kept his boxers on and his penis was like coming out from that slit thing. i was ontop so it was easy for me to control the pain, and it hurt, like a lot. but after i got used to it it was alright, but when i got off i realized that i was dripping blood and i got blood all over his boxers.. it was really embarassing, but he was really sweet about it. so anyway i thought that i might have started my period, thats how much blood there was. but it would have been a week early, so that couldn't have been it and the bleeding stopped after a few days so i was wondering if this was normal??
and also will i still bleed the next time, because we didn't really properly do it, like we didn't do it for a long time so i'm afraid that the next time i do it i'll start bleeding again.. thanks:)
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since we did it in a karaoke room we had our clothes on (i had a dress on) and he kept his boxers on and his penis was like coming out from that slit thing. i was ontop so it was easy for me to control the pain, and it hurt, like a lot. but after i got used to it it was alright, but when i got off i realized that i was dripping blood and i got blood all over his boxers.. it was really embarassing, but he was really sweet about it. so anyway i thought that i might have started my period, thats how much blood there was. but it would have been a week early, so that couldn't have been it and the bleeding stopped after a few days so i was wondering if this was normal??
and also will i still bleed the next time, because we didn't really properly do it, like we didn't do it for a long time so i'm afraid that the next time i do it i'll start bleeding again.. thanks:)
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I lost my virginity to my boyfriend of two years when I was 16, and it did not hurt at all. I got no pleasure either though. We had always been sexually active in other ways, but I'd wanted to wait 'till i was 16 before we did it. He was a virgin too and was like really nervous, and hardly penetrated. We didn't even finish before we decided to stop. We hardly ever had sex after that, I thought it was my fault because I wasn't good enough or something. I am with a new boyfriend now aged 18 and my first time with him, was really painful. I think this was because he penetrated properly, and friends had always said "it will hurt" so I assumed it was normal. I did not bleed at all, but I have ridden horses all of my life and have heard your hymen can break through this, or gymnastics and things. Also there was a time i the distant past when I bled after being fingered by my ex. I thought nothing of it at the time, but this could have been my hymen breaking also. After having sex several times, the pain goes and now it's always amazing. So don't worry, it will get better :-)
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hi everyone,
i was dating a person becuse he liked me and i told him that i will not go for intercourse.but one day without my will he did intercourse and that was painful. for me it was a rape.i was using my whole force to stop him but couldnt .i did bleed for 2 days but very little.m interested in knowing that will i bleed again? will my husbnd knw that i did intercours wth someone els too.becuse in my fmly and culture aswell a women has to bleed on her wedding night.please help me out what should i do.
i was dating a person becuse he liked me and i told him that i will not go for intercourse.but one day without my will he did intercourse and that was painful. for me it was a rape.i was using my whole force to stop him but couldnt .i did bleed for 2 days but very little.m interested in knowing that will i bleed again? will my husbnd knw that i did intercours wth someone els too.becuse in my fmly and culture aswell a women has to bleed on her wedding night.please help me out what should i do.
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