Thanks for everyone commenting here. I have read everyones comments and just had a brilliant wank over them.
Advice for any lads about to take some girls V:
Make sure you are on top. Once you are inbetween here legs you are as good as in. Be forceful and don't allow her/give her time to say no.
Make sure you are facing the pillow, not her. I will probably hurt her and there is a chance she will ask you to stop, this can be very annoying and disatisfiying if you are about to come.. If you are not looking at her you could say after that you didn't realise she was in pain or didn't hear her. The chances are she wouldn't say anything anyway as they are normaly too scared and the only way of knowing is by looking at them.
Don't bother with a comdom. If you know she hasn't done anything like needle sharing it's ok not to use anything, you will never catch anything off her, after all, she's a virgin. Have fun, it always feels loads better to come inside a girl.
Go fast and hard, be as forceful and as deep as you can, enjoy the moment, you won't get to f**k too many virgins.
After you have had your fun and whether you do or don't, tell her you love her. When a girl loses it with a guy she normally feels like she has to stay with him for a while. This is great. You can go do what you like for a while and come back and get an easy lay. She won't have the confidance to sleep with any one else for a while so you know she's clean and not been shared.
I hope this advice helps!
Advice for any lads about to take some girls V:
Make sure you are on top. Once you are inbetween here legs you are as good as in. Be forceful and don't allow her/give her time to say no.
Make sure you are facing the pillow, not her. I will probably hurt her and there is a chance she will ask you to stop, this can be very annoying and disatisfiying if you are about to come.. If you are not looking at her you could say after that you didn't realise she was in pain or didn't hear her. The chances are she wouldn't say anything anyway as they are normaly too scared and the only way of knowing is by looking at them.
Don't bother with a comdom. If you know she hasn't done anything like needle sharing it's ok not to use anything, you will never catch anything off her, after all, she's a virgin. Have fun, it always feels loads better to come inside a girl.
Go fast and hard, be as forceful and as deep as you can, enjoy the moment, you won't get to f**k too many virgins.
After you have had your fun and whether you do or don't, tell her you love her. When a girl loses it with a guy she normally feels like she has to stay with him for a while. This is great. You can go do what you like for a while and come back and get an easy lay. She won't have the confidance to sleep with any one else for a while so you know she's clean and not been shared.
I hope this advice helps!
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okiee so me and mah bf had sex 3 days ago[mah first time] and yes it hurted buh not as bad is i thought it was going to maybe bcs ive fingeredd mahself b4 as well as his fingered me , yes idid bleed. one day[2 days after ihad sex] i put mah finger in me [just for fun] and when i took it out i saw i had blood i was confused i did it again n again ihad blood now today[3 days after] i tried again bcs i feel scared bcs i dont know if its normal - is it normal? today when i put my finger in me i bleed buh it felt like alot of blood was coming out blood was in the toilet n wen i cleaned mahself there was alot of blood buh i hadnt bleed after havinq sex by peeing or takinq a shower i just noticedd taht only when i put my finger in me blood comes out :: im confused is it normal or should i be worried!?? %-)
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So I lost my virginity two days ago, and had sex again this morning it hurt again. But today i've been bleeding when I go to the bathroom. Is that normal??? I'm quite frightened. Is it still okay to have sex again soon? or not?? He wants to do it again tonight. Help please.
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my boyfriend and i both lost our virginity's yesterday :$ and like a few times after he just looked at me and freaked out because i was bleeding [yeah... he's a little on the uneducated side when it comes to girl stuff...], but it wasn't like a few drops or whatever like i expected, it was a lot, like lazy girl on her period a lot. I know we're supposed to bleed but i mean, there was so much! Blood doesn't make me queasy or anything, i'm ok with it, but i couldn't stop shaking. I'll admit he's a bit larger than i expected and yeah, my first thought was 'oh f* he's going to tear me apart' but i mean, i didn't expect my thought to end up so literal. The bleeding kinda subsided, but there was still a lot even after we were done. it's been over 24hrs and i'm still kind of bleeding. idk if that's normal, my friends who've lost their virginity a while ago say it's expected because i'm so tiny [4"11 and 103-5lbs] and he's pretty decently sized in that department, but idk. am i just paranoid or should i talk to a doctor? o.O
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How much are you bleeding now? Can you see if it is stopping or is there a same amount of blood like day before?
In my opinion, maybe you should first talk to your parent, if you are able to and then decide if you need to go to doctor.
Is your condition any better today?
In my opinion, maybe you should first talk to your parent, if you are able to and then decide if you need to go to doctor.
Is your condition any better today?
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ive had sex bt nothin happen just a little pain at first im not sure if ive lost my virginity or not.
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im 25 years old and i experienced sex when im 24 years old. we are 8 years already with my bf. and we did sex between our 7-8 years for the reason that we want to do it in the perfect time. but please somebody well experienced enough to explain to me on why i did not bleed in our first time. and even we did it more than times, still i did not bleed. after our first time, we are not the same as before anymore because a big question are still on his mind on why i did not bleed. hes on doubt and insisted that i cheated on him in between our relationship... which for God sake is not true. please help. tnx...
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See I lost my virginty like two days ago and I went to the bathroom there was a little blood. Then I had sex again like yesterday and we did it a little more roughly and it hurt a little more like i could really sit down normal for a couple of hours but theres still some bleeding. Just saying best way to loose it. is put on relaxing music (Lol i chose ska) because you seriously need to be relaxed and make sure a girl is on top cause then you have control of how much you go down and how slow you go...I had my boyfriend ontop of me the first time we did it and his arm twiched and it almost slammed up into me I wanted to cry. thankgod I flipped it so i was on top. I keep getting nervous though about the blood. But One thing girls...if you arent ready to have children like if you really do not want children at the moment please use a condom because even risking it by pulling out quick enough wont matter he can have sperm in the Pre-ejaculation. Also I suggest if you really want to feel like nothings there use trojan ecstacsy its really luberecatied like i mean REALLY so it helps alot...also just saying please if you cant buy the condoms have a trusted friend buy them for you. Or worse comes to worse youself...Its better to be awkward for 9 minutes than to have to be awkward for 9 months.
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omg!!! i just lost mine 3 days ago and i am having to same problem,, burning and bleeding sometimes when i pee and most of the time when i go #2,,i am sooo glade that im not the only one having this problem..at first i thought i was prego but i feel much better now,,because i didnt use protection but he did pull out and i just wasnt sure!! :D
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i lost mine about 5 days ago, it hurt very bad and ive been bleeding ever since, not alot though. i started to have a sore throat all day yesterday and my stomach had been upset and ive felt nauscious off and on. now today my throat stopped hurting a little while ago but my stomach is still upset and has been all day. im supposed to start my period next week but i dont know if i will because of the bleeding. could i be pregnant?
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i have done sex 4 days ago .i m vergion bt mujhe bleeding nhi hui nd pain bhi nhi hua plz tell me the answer if any body know .mujhe bhut tention ho rhi hai
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wow all that info was very useful. i was in so much pain during my first time, my bf had to stop and pull out at least 3 times. and when we finished, there was so much blood, and i had blood for about 3 days after but it went away after that. i was really worried, but after reading all this i am so relieved to see so many other girls had the same problem!
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Hi,
I just lost my virginity the other night and I'm still bleeding. Not a little, but a lot and it hasn't slowed down. How long does it normally take for the bleeding to stop and how much is normal. I know he went in and out a couple of times, the last time hurt the worst.
I just lost my virginity the other night and I'm still bleeding. Not a little, but a lot and it hasn't slowed down. How long does it normally take for the bleeding to stop and how much is normal. I know he went in and out a couple of times, the last time hurt the worst.
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I had sex for the first time, my fiance is much bigger than normal. He actually has to use XL condoms. Anyways the first time we tried I noticed bleeding the next morning. The next time we tried, the first round was great, the second round I started bleeding, like period blood. So naturally I thought I started my period. My periods are very irregular, but I have refused to take birth control because of the side effects. So a week later we tried for the third time and the pain felt like the first time. And it was twice as much blood as before. Is this normal, and is the bleeding due to his penis size?
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Well it is commonly refered to as lossing your cherry but it mostly vaginal blood buildupo from virginity that is "popped" on the act of sex! o.O
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