Hey..
I recently noticed that my boyfriend was feeling pain as he entered me so I asked what was wrong and he showed me his foreskin the colour had changed from a pale pink and loosly fitting to tight and bright obvious red. I also noticed it was looking really chapped and just like on your lips were just to the cracking sore new skin layers where showing through.
I keep saying no to sex but he just gets more and more wound up about it, he says hes checked the internet and everything is fine and tells me its clearing up but I feel I see a different story of it being the same or slightly more red :-( ..
He also doesnt like going the doctors as over the last few months hes visited her many of times over his spinal injury, he also feels rather embarressed as his doctor is a family friend.
I am his first sexual partner and eventhough I have had sexual partners in the past before we had sexual intercourse I checked myself out for every STI and STD and I was completely clear.
Does anyone know what going on and what can sort it or will he just have to face his fears and go the doctors? o.O
Thanks :-)
I recently noticed that my boyfriend was feeling pain as he entered me so I asked what was wrong and he showed me his foreskin the colour had changed from a pale pink and loosly fitting to tight and bright obvious red. I also noticed it was looking really chapped and just like on your lips were just to the cracking sore new skin layers where showing through.
I keep saying no to sex but he just gets more and more wound up about it, he says hes checked the internet and everything is fine and tells me its clearing up but I feel I see a different story of it being the same or slightly more red :-( ..
He also doesnt like going the doctors as over the last few months hes visited her many of times over his spinal injury, he also feels rather embarressed as his doctor is a family friend.
I am his first sexual partner and eventhough I have had sexual partners in the past before we had sexual intercourse I checked myself out for every STI and STD and I was completely clear.
Does anyone know what going on and what can sort it or will he just have to face his fears and go the doctors? o.O
Thanks :-)
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You are absolutely right to say "no sex" until you get checked out by a doctor.
In fact, you could go with him, for moral support, even if you aren't in the room, or if you don't get checked out then also.
It sounds like he does have something growing under his foreskin.
The bright red angry and tight nature is a great indicator. You are right to spot it.
I am surprised that he would want to continue having sex if he hurts him to do so,
but I am not entirely sure he's in enough pain to not want the thrill of orgasm.
He may not have the money or the courage to go see his regular doctor, but he does need to be checked out.
Stick to your guns.
In fact, you could go with him, for moral support, even if you aren't in the room, or if you don't get checked out then also.
It sounds like he does have something growing under his foreskin.
The bright red angry and tight nature is a great indicator. You are right to spot it.
I am surprised that he would want to continue having sex if he hurts him to do so,
but I am not entirely sure he's in enough pain to not want the thrill of orgasm.
He may not have the money or the courage to go see his regular doctor, but he does need to be checked out.
Stick to your guns.
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Thanks for the advice,
He still wanted to have sex because he didnt want to appearently dissappoint me but its all fine now.
He is going to the doctors tomorrow for his routine spinal check up so hes going to ask her then..
He seems more concentrated on knowing what it is rather than being embarressed and we're in the UK so the money aspects of the doctors is finee
Thanks again. :-)
He still wanted to have sex because he didnt want to appearently dissappoint me but its all fine now.
He is going to the doctors tomorrow for his routine spinal check up so hes going to ask her then..
He seems more concentrated on knowing what it is rather than being embarressed and we're in the UK so the money aspects of the doctors is finee
Thanks again. :-)
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