I'm 19, I'm a virgin. Last night was my birthday, and I was about to lose my v-card with some birthday sex, but I had an issue. I couldn't get hard for the life of me. This happened before too, a few months ago. My girlfriend is very attractive... I can barely keep my hands off of her. I love her very much too, I feel close with her. We have fooled around before and I got a many major erections, she even raised my self esteem by saying she was happy with how big I was. But when sex comes up, gone. I get turned on just seeing her, and there is no doubt in my mind that I love her. What is happening? I do watch a little porn (not very much at all, maybe once every other week), and I do masturbate maybe 3 times a week. When I masturbate, I get hard, so I don't think I have ED. Can someone help me out?
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Sounds like nerves to me.
You're so keyed up to do the big deed, that you're loosing your focus and the feelings of arousal that got you firm.
I'd recommend you take the pressure off you, and relax. Make a deal with your date that nothing is going to go pass a certain point... like penetration. And then relax, and just have fun with each other. You'll know that you're not going to do that thing, and so you can just enjoy each other's body.
Your confidence will improve. Someday after that, you may want to make an appointment with her, or else, just let her take charge on one night.
Just make sure you are using protection.
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