im 16 and a virgin and i've tried to have sex twice now with two different guys and both times they couldnt get their penises in my vagina. im starting to get scared that theres something wrong with me and its really embarassing!!!! i cant ask my friends cause its so embarassing i dont want people to think i dont know what im doing. plz help this is so embarassing!!!! i dont kno waht to do!!!
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Did the guys get soft? If not, just relax; let them help you to relax so your vagina can open and let his penis go in. A guy should put his penis in slowly, letting your vagina get used to the size. Very slowly. Then when it is all the way inside, just let him hold it there, and you both enjoy having his penis inside. Then he can start moving it, and the feeling will help your vagina relax even more. Before you know it, you will be f*****g. Then he will spurt, and his sperm will lubricate your vagina and it will be effortless. After he spurts his penis will start to shrink, making your vagina feel less stretched. You can lie there with his penis in you even after he ejaculated, and the feeling is great.
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Try using a good lube such as WET or those by KY in the bottles. If your not properly lubed inside your vagina or the outside of his penis, it will feel like he has hit a brick wall or you will feel like your vagina is tearing.
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ALL THAT I CAN SAY IS FIRST DO IT RIGHT. ALWAYS ALEAYS PROTECT YOURSELFE WHEN YOU HAVE SEX WITH ANYONE NO MATTER WHO IT IS TO BE ON THE SAFE SIDE OF NOT COMING OUT PREGNANT. YOUR STILL YOUNG TO BE COME OUT PREGNANTE. THEN LIKE THEY SAID GET LUB SO YOU WON'T HURT YOURSELF SCENTS ITS' MORE LESS YOUR FIRST TIME TO HAVE SOMETHING GOING IN THEIR.
THIS IS WHAT I THINK IF IT DOESN'T HELP U JUST HAVE SAFE SEX SO YOU WON'T GET A STD. AND THAT REALLY *** BIG.
OTHER THAN THAT HAVE A BALL ITS ALL GOOD WHEN IT COMES TO THE END
THIS IS WHAT I THINK IF IT DOESN'T HELP U JUST HAVE SAFE SEX SO YOU WON'T GET A STD. AND THAT REALLY *** BIG.
OTHER THAN THAT HAVE A BALL ITS ALL GOOD WHEN IT COMES TO THE END
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I WANT TO HELP YOU OUT A GREAT DEAL HERE AND IF YOU WILL TAKE MY ADVICE YOU WONT REGRET IT LATER ON IN LIFE!
I THINK THAT YOU SHOULD HOLD ON TIGHT TO SOMETHING THAT IS SO PRECIOUS AND IF YOU GIVE IT AWAY SO EASILY YOU WILL REGRET IT ONE DAY AND YOU CAN NEVER GET IT BACK!
BEING A VIRGIN IS A GOOD THING AND A GOOD MAN WILL LOVE YOU FOR THAT ONE DAY. YOU ARE SO YOUNG AND HAVE YOUR WHOLE LIFE AHEAD OF YOU. ON YOUR WEDDING NIGHT WILL BE THAT BEST NIGHT OF YOUR LIFE TO KNOW THAT YOU HELD ON TO THIS JUST FOR THE PERFECT MAN.
WAIT AND DON'T TAKE THE CHANCE OF GETTING PREGNANT OR GETTING AN STD OR WORSE ....AIDS! ALSO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE LEADS TO OTHER THINGS, LIKE: DRUGS, ALCOHOL, PARTIES, AND MORE SEX WITH DIFFERENT MEN. BEFORE YOU KNOW IT YOU WILL HAVE HAD SEX WITH 20 MEN. SO PLEASE DON'T DO THIS TO YOUR-SELF. DON'T DO THIS TO THE CHILD THAT COULD BE BORN BECAUSE OF A MISTAKE THAT YOU MADE. LET ME TELL YOU IF A GUY WILL TAKE IT FROM YOU SO EASILY HE AIN'T WORTH A NICKEL......FIND YOU A GOOD GUY WHO WILL RESPECT YOU AND THE BOUNDARIES THAT YOU HAVE.
I KNOW THAT I WISH SOMEONE WOULD HAVE OFFERED THIS ADVICE TO ME WHEN I WAS YOUR AGE AND I WOULDNT HAVE ENDED UP A STATISTIC.
SO I AM OFFERING YOU SOME WISDOM AND WHAT YOU DO WITH IT IS YOUR DECISION. I HOPE THAT YOU WILL STOP AND THINK LONG AND HARD BEFORE YOU DO THIS OR TRY IT AGAIN.
WHO KNOWS IT MAYBE GOD'S WAY OF SHOWING YOU THAT IS NOT RIGHT AND THAT YOU NEED TO WAIT.
TRUST ME AFTER IT'S ALL OVER, ALL YOU WILL HAVE IS A BROKEN HEART.
I HOPE THAT THESE WORDS WILL MAKE YOU SIT AND THINK!
GOD BLESS!
I THINK THAT YOU SHOULD HOLD ON TIGHT TO SOMETHING THAT IS SO PRECIOUS AND IF YOU GIVE IT AWAY SO EASILY YOU WILL REGRET IT ONE DAY AND YOU CAN NEVER GET IT BACK!
BEING A VIRGIN IS A GOOD THING AND A GOOD MAN WILL LOVE YOU FOR THAT ONE DAY. YOU ARE SO YOUNG AND HAVE YOUR WHOLE LIFE AHEAD OF YOU. ON YOUR WEDDING NIGHT WILL BE THAT BEST NIGHT OF YOUR LIFE TO KNOW THAT YOU HELD ON TO THIS JUST FOR THE PERFECT MAN.
WAIT AND DON'T TAKE THE CHANCE OF GETTING PREGNANT OR GETTING AN STD OR WORSE ....AIDS! ALSO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE LEADS TO OTHER THINGS, LIKE: DRUGS, ALCOHOL, PARTIES, AND MORE SEX WITH DIFFERENT MEN. BEFORE YOU KNOW IT YOU WILL HAVE HAD SEX WITH 20 MEN. SO PLEASE DON'T DO THIS TO YOUR-SELF. DON'T DO THIS TO THE CHILD THAT COULD BE BORN BECAUSE OF A MISTAKE THAT YOU MADE. LET ME TELL YOU IF A GUY WILL TAKE IT FROM YOU SO EASILY HE AIN'T WORTH A NICKEL......FIND YOU A GOOD GUY WHO WILL RESPECT YOU AND THE BOUNDARIES THAT YOU HAVE.
I KNOW THAT I WISH SOMEONE WOULD HAVE OFFERED THIS ADVICE TO ME WHEN I WAS YOUR AGE AND I WOULDNT HAVE ENDED UP A STATISTIC.
SO I AM OFFERING YOU SOME WISDOM AND WHAT YOU DO WITH IT IS YOUR DECISION. I HOPE THAT YOU WILL STOP AND THINK LONG AND HARD BEFORE YOU DO THIS OR TRY IT AGAIN.
WHO KNOWS IT MAYBE GOD'S WAY OF SHOWING YOU THAT IS NOT RIGHT AND THAT YOU NEED TO WAIT.
TRUST ME AFTER IT'S ALL OVER, ALL YOU WILL HAVE IS A BROKEN HEART.
I HOPE THAT THESE WORDS WILL MAKE YOU SIT AND THINK!
GOD BLESS!
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i think you should not have sex right now and i think god is trying to tell you something what if you have sex a get pregant what will you do than because you know them guys are going to leave you faster than they came in to your life i think you should wait until you meet the right guy and you are older than sixteen so i hope you will wait
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You can only give your virginity away once to one person. So make sure that he is verrrrrry special and deserving of this special gift.
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MY DEAR IT IS A SIGN that you shouldnt be having sex right now. You are to young and if you have allready tried it with 2 guys, why dont you slow down and breathe. Love is not about Sex, it is about communication, emotional bonds, and someone you can be combatible with. Before you go letting yourself and body free to everyone, you really need to think about the consequenes, pregnancy, diseases, Aids, I mean those are very scary things. What I suggest is if anything stop trying right now and go to your doctor. Have them check you out and get on some kind of birth control, get some information and be prepared. At your age, you dont need to throw yourself at anyone, becasue all guys want is to have you as a conquest. And please becareful when you post a subject as graphic as this, its a good way to get answers from perverts like I have seen posting replies allready to your questions. All you need is some time, maturity and maybe a talk with your parents or school counselor. Throwing yourself to random boys is NOT the answer, and obvously you are allready subconsiously uncomfortable becasue you didnt go through with 2 boys allready. So take your time dear and stay a Virgin as long as you can, it will make you a stronger woman in the end.
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the first time i have tried having sex, his penis wouldnt go in my vagina what so ever. me and him have been friend but never in a relationship and we only like each other as friends. so i was subconsiously didnt want to lose my virginity to him. but when i met my current boyfriend i fell in love with him and i know that i want to spend the rest of my life with him and the first time we had sex, it was easy and i was ready and his penis did go in my vagina easily.
if you're ready to have sex, your body will tell you
if you're ready to have sex, your body will tell you
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Ms. Scared&Embarrassed,
Do not pay any attention to these religious nuts preaching abstinence at you. I'm very sorry that so many replies were of this nature. You asked a question sincerely seeking help, and they want to impose their ethical view on you. This was a scientific question, and religion has no place in the thread. I hope that this guy: is able to put his right :!: all of their asses. You've obviously already make the decision to have sex. That's your business.
Your post is old, but in case you (or anybody else that stumbles upon this) still wants answers, I'll say a couple things. First of all, you're not abnormal. Secondly, are you doing any foreplay before intercourse? I mean, maybe your vagina is not receptive to penetration, because you are not aroused. And/or maybe his penis is not hard enough because he's not fully aroused. I suggest manual stimulation of each other (meaning using your hands) and oral sex. Thirdly, maybe your vagina is not receptive, because you are nervous and your muscles are tense. Just try to relax.
Do not pay any attention to these religious nuts preaching abstinence at you. I'm very sorry that so many replies were of this nature. You asked a question sincerely seeking help, and they want to impose their ethical view on you. This was a scientific question, and religion has no place in the thread. I hope that this guy: is able to put his right :!: all of their asses. You've obviously already make the decision to have sex. That's your business.
Your post is old, but in case you (or anybody else that stumbles upon this) still wants answers, I'll say a couple things. First of all, you're not abnormal. Secondly, are you doing any foreplay before intercourse? I mean, maybe your vagina is not receptive to penetration, because you are not aroused. And/or maybe his penis is not hard enough because he's not fully aroused. I suggest manual stimulation of each other (meaning using your hands) and oral sex. Thirdly, maybe your vagina is not receptive, because you are nervous and your muscles are tense. Just try to relax.
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LOLs you mean all the people who used to say that "Sex is prohibited under 16" are crazy?
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Ummm, to say that we are all religious fanatics is alittle crazy yourself.. Maybe we are just a few knowledgeble people that are parents ourselves trying to help a girl think twice about what she is about to do..
You come off like a super hero, come to save the day!!!!
I would be just as blunt to say go to the drs and get on BC and talk to the dr...Just like I said in a previous post, but I guess you are one of those people who knows, maybe parents that likes to push kids to sex...I dunno...It was provbaly kind for you to tell her what she and he should do, but when I was that young and it worked out like that...It wasn't meant to be...And that was FINAL!!!
You come off like a super hero, come to save the day!!!!
I would be just as blunt to say go to the drs and get on BC and talk to the dr...Just like I said in a previous post, but I guess you are one of those people who knows, maybe parents that likes to push kids to sex...I dunno...It was provbaly kind for you to tell her what she and he should do, but when I was that young and it worked out like that...It wasn't meant to be...And that was FINAL!!!
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Hi
I m Rahul 18 , u have no need to worry about it. Bcoz might be possible where u tried they both r unknown about sex bcoz until then when they must have tried to keep there penis in ur vegina they must have orgasm nd might be possible they couldn't find ur hole where penis should go. so u shouldn't be worry about it bcoz my childhood friend nikita faced this kind of problem and i was also frustrated about sex and we both with each other. And when he down her painty and i directly kept my penis in her vagina and penis went away inside.
I m Rahul 18 , u have no need to worry about it. Bcoz might be possible where u tried they both r unknown about sex bcoz until then when they must have tried to keep there penis in ur vegina they must have orgasm nd might be possible they couldn't find ur hole where penis should go. so u shouldn't be worry about it bcoz my childhood friend nikita faced this kind of problem and i was also frustrated about sex and we both with each other. And when he down her painty and i directly kept my penis in her vagina and penis went away inside.
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dear @!#$ing nutcases trying to talk her out of it back off all this is for is giving answers to the question asked for all you know she might really love the guy she has sex with next or any other girl for that matter the girl im MARRIED to right now had sex with mme at an early age and now that me and her think back it was a great idea because it helped us develop our love
to the girl who asked the question or anyone else my only advice is relax use lots of lube and start off slowly
ps enjoy
to the girl who asked the question or anyone else my only advice is relax use lots of lube and start off slowly
ps enjoy
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have u tried any thing to get you really wet.. that may just be the problem.. and use protection.. I kno you dont want a baby!!!!
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