Can't ejaculate with girlfriend

Socz1 over a year ago

ok..here is the thing..i am really turned on with my girlfriend..we didnt have sex..we only make out and touch each other but not inside underpants..only outside (because she doesn feel comf etc..)...so,when she is rubbing me i feel my penis wet and its something like an orgasm but its not white sticky semen coming out,its something watery...when i masturbate i ejaculate normally,with orgasm and white sperm...maybe im not simulated enough because its outside of the underwear..i dont know..anyway,im really confused.thanks

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obscure seaplane over a year ago

Hey socz... what u are talking about is called pre-ejaculatory fluid...or pre-cum as most people call it.... it is produced when your body is aroused for a period of time.... it is a fluid produced by your cowpwers glands and is your bodies natural lubrication so penetration is easier . It also neutralized any acid from left over urin in your urethra..... if you keep stimulating yourself when ur with your gf eventually you will ejaculate and probably more semen than you ever had..... the more turned on and aroused you are the more semen you produce....

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Socz1 over a year ago

thank you bio...im not sure if it is possible to cum from outside of the underwear simulation though..dont you think? because when we have sex i will maybe ejaculate without a problem...

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obscure seaplane over a year ago

Hey scoz I have ejaculated from stimulation on the out side of my undetwear and pants..... it depends on the person and you can't get nervous or think too much..... it could be ur not as comfortable having her stimulate you as you are when you masturbate... you could try stimulating her while she does you that also can help

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Guest over a year ago

Hi, To my case I have ejaculated pretty good from stimulation on the out side of my undetwear and pants, I guess you are too young. A lot of guys can't ejaculate when are whith his gfs.It could be your case.

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Socz1 over a year ago

maybe...im 16..i m not worried a lot..cause i know i can ejaculate,when im on my own..maybe i just dont feel very comf yet...

Bio is it natural that i feel precum coming out? not exactly orgasm,but something like this...

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obscure seaplane over a year ago

yes most people don't really notice it but if you produce a lot and are really aroused yes you can feel it

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Socz1 over a year ago

so bio... should i worry that i will never ejaculate(when i go on to other things than these starters) or it is just natural?

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obscure seaplane over a year ago

lol absolutly not there is no need to worry.... your are perfectly fine. Sex/ejaculation is 90% mental. If you are stressed worried nervous or otherwise not into it its very difficult if not impossible to ejaculate..... there is nothing wrong with you

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Socz1 over a year ago

now i understand...i can also say im a lot nervous and stressed cause im beginer..soo..anyway..thank you very much bio..i appreciate that

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obscure seaplane over a year ago

Your very welcome socz...... just relax and ake things slow... communication os huge too let her tell you what feels ggod to her abd tell her what feels good to you. But remember there are lots of risks with sex stds and pregnancy are the two main risks you are probably a bit young anyway for sex just look at all the posts regarding pregnancy and stds from kids and adults alike on this forum..... accidents happen verry quickly and becareful with pre-cum too.....

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Guest over a year ago

Yes Socz, many guys gets STD or get pregnant after had intercourse, my 2 close friends (14 y. o.) ruined their lives, his 2 respective girlfriends are pregnant just now, Their parents are very ungry. I don´t want to be in the same case. All things starts just playing around each other. Be carefully please. I supouse you are a younger guy but so intelligent too.

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Socz1 over a year ago

Yes I know the risks and when I reach to this point I will be careful,i know its good but I take it as a serious thing,..and I dont believe im to young..i mean ok,maybe...but the main thing is to be careful and I think I can handle it(we are together 1 year,both 16 year old)

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rocky over a year ago

it is very embarising for me to tell it publically that i can't ejaculate.... before or after masturbuting ....it was my sweet sixteen when i got to know about sex and all about it then after knowing this i concluded that i can't ejaculate i think i have retro grade ejaculation......frndZ please help me...... i want my life happy after mariage.......yet i m a bachelor.......please help me.... . . . .

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