Okay so me and my girlfriend have just started doing stuff to each other, and I've dont stuff to her quite a few times now...i use my fingers to rub her clitoris and she says it feels really nice and is exactly how she likes it, but she just can't orgasm, any help?
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The real question is whether your girlfriend can get herself to orgasm. Does she feel comfortable masturbating in your presence? That maybe something you both work up to: mutual masturbation. The best way for you or her to communicate what and how you feel is to first do it to your self. Awkward but effective!
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Patrick, you sound very young and please forgive me for assuming that if you are not. If you both are young and experiencing your first sexual encounters, then she probably isn't comfortable enough to orgasm in front of anybody yet. Remember, with women, orgasm is just as much mental as physical and if there are any psychological triggers that are impeding her total relaxation then she is more than likely not going to come for you. I'm 48, love sex, have orgasms every time thanks to my wonderful husband, but if the dogs are barking or we are in a hotel where others might hear me, I tense up and sometimes he has to use a vibrator on my clit to get me there. Of course, he knows my body better than I do and I don't have to tell him to do these things - he just does. And, you will get there eventually with women.
Give her time and make her feel safe - she'll get there for you.
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