..and tell her not to have sex... jeez.. And what the hell!..
YOU GOT PREGNANT AT LIKE 12!!! SO HOW IS IT THE SLIGHTEST BIT WEIRD THET YOUR DAUGHTER WOULD ASK A QUESTION ABOUT SEX!!?? I MEAN... YOU KNEW ENOUGH ABOUT IT WHEN YOU WERE 12...
or maybe you knew too little, and thats why you did it..
YOU GOT PREGNANT AT LIKE 12!!! SO HOW IS IT THE SLIGHTEST BIT WEIRD THET YOUR DAUGHTER WOULD ASK A QUESTION ABOUT SEX!!?? I MEAN... YOU KNEW ENOUGH ABOUT IT WHEN YOU WERE 12...
or maybe you knew too little, and thats why you did it..
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HI IM 13 AND I THINK ITS NORMAL, I JUST WANTED TO SAY THAT IF YOU WANT HER TO BE CLOSE WITH YOU AND FELL COMFORTABLE LET HER KNOW EVERYTHING, I MEAN LOOK IVE NEVER BEEN CLOSE TO MY MUM AND I DRINK, I DO DRUGS, IF I FELT Sfe with my mum i wouldnt be like this I NOE I SEEM WRONG BUT FOR YOU, THANK GOODNESS THAT YOUR DAUGHTER FEELS SAFE WITH YOU!!
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hi there, sounds like your daughter already had sex, and wants to compare your experience with hers in a round about way. after all you had sex at 13?
just my observation..........
just my observation..........
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Wenger
I hope you have not gone away :-P from being hounded like a dog? :$ I see that you are feeling your age, :O and got caught off guard with this, o.O but Yes it is normal, as she might have heard it from a older girl, in school, scouts or other activity.
I wish to say to you there is a lot of information on the web, so plan many study nights with her, %-) to go along with her to the sites from search engines on any topic she wishes to know about, grow topics, periods, tampons, masturbation, intercourse, "sex toys" and birth control.
This way you will also see what she sees, 8-| and don't limit her to the access, wrong information will get all girls in trouble, some thing we do not wish to have. :-P
RT :-S
I see that there is a blog here named Sexapeal, it has some links to start with and go from there.
I hope you have not gone away :-P from being hounded like a dog? :$ I see that you are feeling your age, :O and got caught off guard with this, o.O but Yes it is normal, as she might have heard it from a older girl, in school, scouts or other activity.
I wish to say to you there is a lot of information on the web, so plan many study nights with her, %-) to go along with her to the sites from search engines on any topic she wishes to know about, grow topics, periods, tampons, masturbation, intercourse, "sex toys" and birth control.
This way you will also see what she sees, 8-| and don't limit her to the access, wrong information will get all girls in trouble, some thing we do not wish to have. :-P
RT :-S
I see that there is a blog here named Sexapeal, it has some links to start with and go from there.
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Be satisfied she asks it. It shows she has a lot of confidence in you: don't let her down. I know of 11-yr old girls asking that kind of questions: they hear something from other girls who didn't understand it or who boast about it and are searching what the the thruth is and what the world is about, be it sex or beauty or dead or anything.
You have two possibilities:
-an openhearted mother-daughter talk or giving her some good informative books written for her age.
If you don't even like giving them, just buy them and let them lying some place where she will find them. ;)
If you don't do it that way, she will seek and find information G.. knows where: on the internet or from a boy or build up some possibly distorted fantasy.
I know a 12yr old girl that committed suicide...the daughter of a friend. Her mother died two years ago.
She had heard a lot of c**p from someone, searched on internet, got on "a black page with weird letters, pics and words", as she described it. A month later she started menstruating, imagined the worst and comitted suicide: she tried three times, two times with drugs, was hospitalized in coma, got out of it, visited a shrink for a few weeks and took drugs again (overdose of Alvil) pulled a plastic bag over her head and died. The funeral took place in Nov 2007 in a small French village.
You have two possibilities:
-an openhearted mother-daughter talk or giving her some good informative books written for her age.
If you don't even like giving them, just buy them and let them lying some place where she will find them. ;)
If you don't do it that way, she will seek and find information G.. knows where: on the internet or from a boy or build up some possibly distorted fantasy.
I know a 12yr old girl that committed suicide...the daughter of a friend. Her mother died two years ago.
She had heard a lot of c**p from someone, searched on internet, got on "a black page with weird letters, pics and words", as she described it. A month later she started menstruating, imagined the worst and comitted suicide: she tried three times, two times with drugs, was hospitalized in coma, got out of it, visited a shrink for a few weeks and took drugs again (overdose of Alvil) pulled a plastic bag over her head and died. The funeral took place in Nov 2007 in a small French village.
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Hey I was the same way. I still am. I am 13 going on 14. She is just curious of how it all works out, she is gonna have to know all this stuff one day. It will help her make good decisions in the future.
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i, being 13 my self, understand why your daughter would ask such a wierd question. the fact is that, now a days, we are learning about sex at a younger age, like 10 or 11 or 12 years. i was taught about periods when i was 10 and i was disgusted at the topic, and i would never bring it up. not i feel as if i am more mature. my friends and i will talk about it together, like which one has a period now, or like if they are expecting one.
you daughter must be bold because i just told my mom about 2 weeks ago about my period.
there are also things online that might make her... well lets just say, curious. this might not be because of a relationship.she must feel REALLY close to you. you must be a GREAT mother.
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Hi Wenger:
If you are 25 and your daughter is 12, then you must have given birth to her at age 13. Furthermore, since the gestation period is about nine month, you may have been only 12 years old yourself, when your daughter was conceived.
I imagine your daughter can do arithmetic and she must know that you were sexually active when you were her age. I see nothing weird about it. Furthermore, children and teens have access to the Internet today and know all sorts of things about sex at an early age.
The best thing you can do is being honest and answer her questions.
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sounds completely normal to be curious about anything and everything. shes a smart human being :)
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Wow! Like mother, like daughter. Both want their lil pussyy filled as a preteen. Go ahead and tell her how good it feels. But make sure she's safe. Only let her have sex at home. Give her condoms.
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