hi ,
I have quite read a lot in many forums about others problems just to find if its relevant to mine. Sometimes i felt it was related . But i dunno it didnt serve the purpose of my problem. So hence posting it.
My husband and I are married fr 6 months. Initially , i was lil uncomfortable thinking about sex. later it went on fine for few months. there were times when I was really longing for it just to sense that feeling.
Earlier(until 3 months back) whenever I have sex it was kindaa good feeling. I feel like am somewhere else and whenever i lie on him and he lies on me and smooches and sometimes when organs touch i really feel good and there were times when i reached a state to ooze out liquid frm my vagina.but tat has happened only thrice in 6 months. but otherwise too whenver i had sex i get a good feeling though i didnt get liquids. whenever i get liquids the feeling is good and fabulous time.
these days since 3 months am not absolutely getiing any sense of feeling at all. though i wanted to have sex but whenevr i do i am just not having any feelings and i am just staying as is . i dunno how to express this in correct words. in one line , its not as good as before . i dont get that somewhere else feeling at all and not feeling anything good.
whatever the foreplay my husband does earlier he do it even now but nothing is making me melt or getting a pleasant feeling.
i discussed this with my hubby but he says if am mentally not ok this happens. he says he is happy. but what i feel is he dont want to hurt me by saying negative things and also even when am mentally very happy also and i invite him to do sex , am not getting that exuperated feeling.
Note : i regularly exercise . I am not slim or fat . I have tummy which isn't very big
my questions are :
!) Do i really have some problems?
2) what can i do to get THOSE feelings?
3) How can I improve my sex life?
pls help me. this really puts me down. as every others i even want my sex lfe to be incredible. pls suggest.
:'(
I have quite read a lot in many forums about others problems just to find if its relevant to mine. Sometimes i felt it was related . But i dunno it didnt serve the purpose of my problem. So hence posting it.
My husband and I are married fr 6 months. Initially , i was lil uncomfortable thinking about sex. later it went on fine for few months. there were times when I was really longing for it just to sense that feeling.
Earlier(until 3 months back) whenever I have sex it was kindaa good feeling. I feel like am somewhere else and whenever i lie on him and he lies on me and smooches and sometimes when organs touch i really feel good and there were times when i reached a state to ooze out liquid frm my vagina.but tat has happened only thrice in 6 months. but otherwise too whenver i had sex i get a good feeling though i didnt get liquids. whenever i get liquids the feeling is good and fabulous time.
these days since 3 months am not absolutely getiing any sense of feeling at all. though i wanted to have sex but whenevr i do i am just not having any feelings and i am just staying as is . i dunno how to express this in correct words. in one line , its not as good as before . i dont get that somewhere else feeling at all and not feeling anything good.
whatever the foreplay my husband does earlier he do it even now but nothing is making me melt or getting a pleasant feeling.
i discussed this with my hubby but he says if am mentally not ok this happens. he says he is happy. but what i feel is he dont want to hurt me by saying negative things and also even when am mentally very happy also and i invite him to do sex , am not getting that exuperated feeling.
Note : i regularly exercise . I am not slim or fat . I have tummy which isn't very big
my questions are :
!) Do i really have some problems?
2) what can i do to get THOSE feelings?
3) How can I improve my sex life?
pls help me. this really puts me down. as every others i even want my sex lfe to be incredible. pls suggest.
:'(
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try experimenting eg threesomes anal whips chains ermmmm you that kinda stuff i myself has never had sex but just try new things hope this helps
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Hi rpa, I am experiencing exactly the same thing at the moment, I noticed your post is 2months old, so I hope this still helps.
I haven't been able to cum with my boyfriend for about 2 or more months, but still enjoy the sex and get turned on. I want to enjoy it, but every time I don't cum my boyfriend feels disapointed and feels its his fault.
I don't know how your relationship is with your hubby. But there is a bit of stuff going on in mine at the moment where he is really taking my confidence away from always telling me how to change things (in appearance) whether it be an outfit or the way I wear my hair ( I am also trying to lose weight and I know being overweight is an issue for him as he is of an average/athletic body).
I posted a little while ago and it made me realise its the trust that is preventing me from relaxing when he is in me, therefore I'm not able to cum. So I am tense all the time. Also he has stopped playing soccer for about 5 months so his fitness level's have dropped so he can't really keep the speed up when I think I am close to cumming. I really don't know how to solve the problem either except try to get the trust back by improving the relationship.
Good luck and hope this helped! :-) 8-|
I haven't been able to cum with my boyfriend for about 2 or more months, but still enjoy the sex and get turned on. I want to enjoy it, but every time I don't cum my boyfriend feels disapointed and feels its his fault.
I don't know how your relationship is with your hubby. But there is a bit of stuff going on in mine at the moment where he is really taking my confidence away from always telling me how to change things (in appearance) whether it be an outfit or the way I wear my hair ( I am also trying to lose weight and I know being overweight is an issue for him as he is of an average/athletic body).
I posted a little while ago and it made me realise its the trust that is preventing me from relaxing when he is in me, therefore I'm not able to cum. So I am tense all the time. Also he has stopped playing soccer for about 5 months so his fitness level's have dropped so he can't really keep the speed up when I think I am close to cumming. I really don't know how to solve the problem either except try to get the trust back by improving the relationship.
Good luck and hope this helped! :-) 8-|
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