Well, my situation is a little bit different. While the sex is happening- all is good... but the second it's over, just the thought of "what has been left down there" literally makes me gag. This has been a problem now for quite sometime. I hate that about me... I hate it so much that I really do everything I can to avoid even having sex. I gag every time after sex... I don't want "the end result" anywhere around me- but it's sooo bad that it doesn't have to be touching me or inside of me- I can just think about it and get sick. I am a real nauseous kind of person anyway, but this is the only thing that is having a negative effect in my personal life. By the way, I have been married for 10 years now, this has been going on for about 5 to 6 years.