okay so on april 3rd.. about 2-3oclock in the morning my girlfriend and I were fooling around. we were doing stuff and eventually i came to climax and ejaculated because she had given me a ha****b. a little while later i went to the bathroom.. went pee, and came back and we cuddled and i fell asleep for a little.
then she woke me up and we started to fool around even more. then she suggested that we could try anal sex. we tried and tried but i couldnt get it in... i layed down and the idea to try the other was brought up. we did it, and without protection i went inside her. it didnt hurt for either of us. i checked the tip of my penis and it was dry.. i went inside once, pulled out and checked the tip, it was dry. she said again so i just went inside, pulled out and checked the tip, it was dry. she said one more time.. i went inside, pulled out.. it was dry. we stopped there. that was the first time either of us had sex with eachother or in general. after the third time we were done.. i layed down... i didnt ejaculate for the rest of the night. i havent ejaculated since and we havent done anything since.
the next day she told her best friend what happened and she started to scare her by getting mad and saying it only takes one time. so now shes really scared and shes afraid she could get pregnant.
her period ended around march 2nd. we did it the 3rd of april at like 3 in the mornign. its now april 8th. on the 6th she said there was some sort of discharge. the 7th she said there was a chunky white discharge. she checked earleir and there was a normal discharge. she just checked like 5 minutes ago and now there is no discharge at all. lately shes been peeing a lot as well. also, starting today she said there were these small bumps on her areola.
shes really stressed right now and i read that being stressed can cause higher frequency in urination. but also a lot of people pee a lot when theyre pregnant. and the bumps aroudn the areola happen during pregnancy but i also read that its normal and it can happen out of pregnancy due to not cleaning right or its just normal. another source said that they start to discharge before their period and they also get bumps on their areola before their period. my girlfriend said she has green poop and she had a pain in her lower stomach. she said she gets bad poop before her period and she thinks the pain in her lower stomach was period cramps. he period was due april 7th but now its april 8th and i read that stress can also push it back. however shes still scared... do you think she could be pregnant??
i know theres always a chance with sexual intercourse, but given our situation and whats happening.. do you think she is? i think we learned our lesson from this scare.. we wont ever do it again unprotected.
then she woke me up and we started to fool around even more. then she suggested that we could try anal sex. we tried and tried but i couldnt get it in... i layed down and the idea to try the other was brought up. we did it, and without protection i went inside her. it didnt hurt for either of us. i checked the tip of my penis and it was dry.. i went inside once, pulled out and checked the tip, it was dry. she said again so i just went inside, pulled out and checked the tip, it was dry. she said one more time.. i went inside, pulled out.. it was dry. we stopped there. that was the first time either of us had sex with eachother or in general. after the third time we were done.. i layed down... i didnt ejaculate for the rest of the night. i havent ejaculated since and we havent done anything since.
the next day she told her best friend what happened and she started to scare her by getting mad and saying it only takes one time. so now shes really scared and shes afraid she could get pregnant.
her period ended around march 2nd. we did it the 3rd of april at like 3 in the mornign. its now april 8th. on the 6th she said there was some sort of discharge. the 7th she said there was a chunky white discharge. she checked earleir and there was a normal discharge. she just checked like 5 minutes ago and now there is no discharge at all. lately shes been peeing a lot as well. also, starting today she said there were these small bumps on her areola.
shes really stressed right now and i read that being stressed can cause higher frequency in urination. but also a lot of people pee a lot when theyre pregnant. and the bumps aroudn the areola happen during pregnancy but i also read that its normal and it can happen out of pregnancy due to not cleaning right or its just normal. another source said that they start to discharge before their period and they also get bumps on their areola before their period. my girlfriend said she has green poop and she had a pain in her lower stomach. she said she gets bad poop before her period and she thinks the pain in her lower stomach was period cramps. he period was due april 7th but now its april 8th and i read that stress can also push it back. however shes still scared... do you think she could be pregnant??
i know theres always a chance with sexual intercourse, but given our situation and whats happening.. do you think she is? i think we learned our lesson from this scare.. we wont ever do it again unprotected.
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Hi honey! Unfortunately I think you might be too late and that she could very well be pregnant right now! All it takes is 1 sperm! I am also worried about something else! You tried to insert the tip of your penis into her anus - thus getting bacteria on that, THEN you inserted that penis with fecal matter into her vagina! This will guarantee that she would ahve a severe vaginal infection! So unfortunately you wont be able to know that she is pregnant till a good 21 days have gone by - so she should take a pregnancy test on or about the 24th of April! I am VERY concerned about her pain in her stomach - hopefully this is a sign of her period coming on and not a pregnancy or a MAJOR bacterial infection! So only time will tell! LEt me know if she is infact pregnant OK? Also IF the pain gets worse OR anything green starts coming from her vagina or anus she will need to get to the doctors IMMEDIATELY!!!
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i appreciate your comment, but i think its too soon to say that shes pregnant for sure. its been 5 days, and if there was an infection im almost sure that would occured on both of us already too.
are there any other opinions?
are there any other opinions?
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Just letting you know that I can't say either way of course - I just wanted to let you know that it is a DEFINITE possibility! I am worried about the infection! IF the green discharge continues she does need to get that checked! Women are more prone to severe infections because the uterus is a pristine area and when a bacteria - such as fecal matter gets in there, there can be terrible consequences!! That's all I am saying OK?
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thank you for your concern.
yea, we're aware of the definite possibility at all costs which is that small chance that has us afraid.
but wouldnt a discharge would be the expulsion of fluids from the vagina? there is no green discharge.. thats just the color of her poop turning green and she says that happens all the time before her period. it doesnt burn, or itch, or irritate when she pees.
yea, we're aware of the definite possibility at all costs which is that small chance that has us afraid.
but wouldnt a discharge would be the expulsion of fluids from the vagina? there is no green discharge.. thats just the color of her poop turning green and she says that happens all the time before her period. it doesnt burn, or itch, or irritate when she pees.
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glad to hear that! Vaginal discharge is common for many reasons - signs of a period coming on, natural discharge, ovulation, infection, increase in hormones during pregnancy! So fingers crossed for you both! Just remember to ALWAYS be protected ESPECIALLY with anal! This can be quite dangerous OK?
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hey, its been a while.
I dont know if you will receive a notification when i post this message, so i'll send you another message as well.
i thank you so much for your concern and the information you had to share. we will definitely keep that in mind for the future. perhaps the best thing in any situation is just to gather as much information as possible.
as it turns out, my girlfriend isn't pregnant. she didn't have an infection either... neither did i. I just wanted to inform you of that. We are very thankful that nothing unplanned happened.
I dont know if you will receive a notification when i post this message, so i'll send you another message as well.
i thank you so much for your concern and the information you had to share. we will definitely keep that in mind for the future. perhaps the best thing in any situation is just to gather as much information as possible.
as it turns out, my girlfriend isn't pregnant. she didn't have an infection either... neither did i. I just wanted to inform you of that. We are very thankful that nothing unplanned happened.
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You probably didn't get her pregnant, but it sounds like she has a bacterial infection. So it's been almost 2 years how did it pan out?
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I don't really feel like reading my original post, but I do recall writing it mainly because she was scared just because of the nature of the situation. She scared herself and stressed herself out so much she scared me a bit, and made herself miss her own period. From a psychological point of view, I think she tricked her brain into thinking she was pregnant too and that gave her some symptoms.
Ultimately, no she didn't get pregnant, but I appreciate and thank you and the others for your responses!
Ultimately, no she didn't get pregnant, but I appreciate and thank you and the others for your responses!
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