Hi,
i am 14years old and have a girlfriend and we have been together for 3 months now and want to have sex with her but dont know how to tell her. It will be my first time and my penis size is 5 inches, should i use a condom ? If so which ones should i use ?
Also any advice on actions during sex would be greatful.
Looking forward to replies.
i am 14years old and have a girlfriend and we have been together for 3 months now and want to have sex with her but dont know how to tell her. It will be my first time and my penis size is 5 inches, should i use a condom ? If so which ones should i use ?
Also any advice on actions during sex would be greatful.
Looking forward to replies.
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I'm 17 and I have been with my girlfriend just over a year now. but about 5 months into the relationship. I was ready for sex and I decided to mention it to her and some part of me wishes I had not mentioned it another wishes it did. She got extremely upset and basically I was about to lose my first love. The person I have ever loved. It's wasn't nice.
But we recovered and because I spoke to her about sex. It made us stronger because we felt more comfortable and very confident with one another.
Now, we still have not had sex and its been 7 months since. She want's to wait till she is 16 and I respect that and we shall wait till she is 16 or when she wants to.
Between the 7months we have done other things to pleasure one another and I think it is a very important stage to go through. Many teenagers are going from maybe Kissing to SEX. I think this is a big step.
You may feel that your that close to her that, you are both ready to have sex. Unless you are both confident and comfortable around one another then I dont think you should speak to her about it.
I know its a hard topic trying to talk about sex to someone. But, if you were comfortable around one another then you should be able to speak to her about it.
I'm going to finish my essay here. As I have been in a similar situation to you. I'm going to say.
I would try other things first. Dont speak to her about doing her other things because it may but her under pressure and feel uncomfortable and thats how you may lose her.
Let things escalate, when ever your alone and w.e kiss her touch her and do things gradually. so you both gain confidence around one another.
That way when you come to asking her in a few months time after you done other things with her i.e. fingering. Then she will be more open to speak etc... Dont rush into things... Your young you have got a lot to learn just as I have.
Hope it helps! Take care. x
But we recovered and because I spoke to her about sex. It made us stronger because we felt more comfortable and very confident with one another.
Now, we still have not had sex and its been 7 months since. She want's to wait till she is 16 and I respect that and we shall wait till she is 16 or when she wants to.
Between the 7months we have done other things to pleasure one another and I think it is a very important stage to go through. Many teenagers are going from maybe Kissing to SEX. I think this is a big step.
You may feel that your that close to her that, you are both ready to have sex. Unless you are both confident and comfortable around one another then I dont think you should speak to her about it.
I know its a hard topic trying to talk about sex to someone. But, if you were comfortable around one another then you should be able to speak to her about it.
I'm going to finish my essay here. As I have been in a similar situation to you. I'm going to say.
I would try other things first. Dont speak to her about doing her other things because it may but her under pressure and feel uncomfortable and thats how you may lose her.
Let things escalate, when ever your alone and w.e kiss her touch her and do things gradually. so you both gain confidence around one another.
That way when you come to asking her in a few months time after you done other things with her i.e. fingering. Then she will be more open to speak etc... Dont rush into things... Your young you have got a lot to learn just as I have.
Hope it helps! Take care. x
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