the problem is that i am not aware of the problems that come when a person has sex for the first time.
please tell me about the sexual problems thet occur when we have our first sex especially the girl, like someone told me that for the first time due to forcible penetration an inflammation occurs in the vagina that lasts a week, is it true?
i wanted to know more about these kind of problems please can anyone help.
please tell me about the sexual problems thet occur when we have our first sex especially the girl, like someone told me that for the first time due to forcible penetration an inflammation occurs in the vagina that lasts a week, is it true?
i wanted to know more about these kind of problems please can anyone help.
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My girl friend was a virgin until 3 weeks ago.. you should start out by fingering her with one finger the when she starts to get wet try two etc..It also depends on how big you are and if the girl has sex recently... 8) :-D ;-)
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it really depends on the girl. unfortunately often the hymen (a small membrane that covers the entrance to the vagina) will have to be ruptured. my girlfriend was a virgin and this was not the case for us. it was a bit of a nervous experience as we were both losing our virginity but overall it was easy, with her experiencing no pain and no bleeding. so it can be easy but in some extreme cases it may even require medical help to remove the hymen.
the only thing i can't stress enough is to take your time. you both need to relax. take some time with foreplay. i would agree with fingering her first (if you know what you're doing). though take some time and make out/grope etc before hand.
discuss contraception and be sure to agree on something in advance. the last thing you want is for the moment to come and dive on in unprotected only to find out a month later that she doesn't have her period. my girlfriend went on the pill before our first time.
also if you haven't explored each other fully yet and tried stuff such as manual stimulation (sex involving the hands), or oral sex, perhaps you should fool around for a while with that. in the end it acts as preparation and helps everything go well when you do have sex.
the only thing i can't stress enough is to take your time. you both need to relax. take some time with foreplay. i would agree with fingering her first (if you know what you're doing). though take some time and make out/grope etc before hand.
discuss contraception and be sure to agree on something in advance. the last thing you want is for the moment to come and dive on in unprotected only to find out a month later that she doesn't have her period. my girlfriend went on the pill before our first time.
also if you haven't explored each other fully yet and tried stuff such as manual stimulation (sex involving the hands), or oral sex, perhaps you should fool around for a while with that. in the end it acts as preparation and helps everything go well when you do have sex.
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