about my girlfriend

Well if she is your girlfriend wouldn't you at least have some trust with her? But the whole being scared opinion, it all depends on the person I mean she could have masturbated and just never have mentioned it to you maybe that's why she wasn't scared. Not everyone gets scared on their first time since it is suppose to be something memorable. Her not being tight could be if she used any toys while she penetrated herself, that could've widen her up a bit. No one really knows exactly except for her, but if you really want to know talk to her. Ask her to talk to you about it (masturbating) if she does it that is.

I am definitely sure that she has never used toys or vibrator to masturbate. Nor fingering herself. Could the desire to have sex make her more widen?

A vagina doesnt work the way u think they do, a vagina is very sensitive. so when you and her had sex....it all depend on the time and moment and envirement and her mood. If u had sex in her bedroom, the place is quiet, and she is completely comfortabale with you and she is realli relax....her vaginal would be like....WELCOMing you into her home. Where she wouldnt be so tight. but if its jux last minute thing and u guys want to get done and over than her vagina wouldnt have rhe time to relax the muscle so it would be tighter.

And NOT all girl bleed on their first time, incase ur wondering. Girl have things thing called a "Hymen" or as we younger generation calls it "Cherry" that when a penis goes in it breaksthe hymen...but some girl has alrdy broken their hymen w/o knowing....ways a girl can break their hymen is if, she rides bike. very athletics, horse riding .. etc..

BTW, ur her boyfriend, should have trust in eachother. Some girls are afraid to admite that they had one b4, so dnt be like all scruch up to her trying to get it out of her. its embarrasing for a girl to tell about it.

Thanks, you may be right. The complete story is here. We both together decided to have sex three months before actual sex. One day we dated and went out to have sex. Finally we went to a guest house and stayed there for a moment and tried to have sex. But failed because of time constraint; she had to go back home. That moment is long for 15 minutes and several attempts to get inside her was really hard and failed. One possible reason is that I had never experienced sex b4 her, say I was virgin. Only the head of my stuff got inside her. So, we were unsuccessful. 2 weeks later, we had another chance to go out. This time, we had much time and decided to have sex till success. She calls me now, I have to leave. So, Please read later the rest.

This time, as we had already decided, I successfully penetrated into her without any tightness and friction against the penetration. Her vagina produced much much juice, fluid, and lubricants, You know. I stopped for a while and told that "you are not virgin and you lied to me'. But she replied me that she was still a virgin and begged me to believe her. Next many time were the same as the first time. I understand the hymen issue. But everybody who has an experience with a virgin tells that every virgin is tight for the first time sex. Why is it not true for her? Are there any other exceptions?