Hi i am 12 and i started masturbating when i was 8 ad sometimes i think of girls (i am) can you tell me some things that i can masturbate with also when is was 7,8 my friend used to come over my house and used to make me go on top of her and so tells me to touch should i talk to her about it or no?
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A couple of things here.
First, what you describe as your friend coming over to your house and make you get on top of her and where to touch her.... sounds like child's play... playing doctor... or early sexual exploration.
If I read you right, you're now 12 and this happened when you were 7 or 8.... about 5 years ago. And you're asking if you should talk to her about touching you or touching her? I'd say "let it go". It was in the past, forgot about it, unless it is causing you problems now.
If you were asking if you should speak with your friend about how to masturbate or what to use, that's up to you. How much do you trust her? Do you think that she would repeat your conversation with others? She may not have any more information than you have.
As for thinking about girls (you say you are a 12 year old girl), thats not a problem. Many people fantasize about their friends, same xex or other sex, and it doesn't mean anything. It's just a fantasy.
As for suggestions on what to masturbate with.... I'm going to leave that to a female moderator her, or others to respond to.
Normally, I'd suggest reading "Sex for One" by Betty Dotson, but I'm not sure a person of your age can find the book or check it out from a library.
Good luck.
First, what you describe as your friend coming over to your house and make you get on top of her and where to touch her.... sounds like child's play... playing doctor... or early sexual exploration.
If I read you right, you're now 12 and this happened when you were 7 or 8.... about 5 years ago. And you're asking if you should talk to her about touching you or touching her? I'd say "let it go". It was in the past, forgot about it, unless it is causing you problems now.
If you were asking if you should speak with your friend about how to masturbate or what to use, that's up to you. How much do you trust her? Do you think that she would repeat your conversation with others? She may not have any more information than you have.
As for thinking about girls (you say you are a 12 year old girl), thats not a problem. Many people fantasize about their friends, same xex or other sex, and it doesn't mean anything. It's just a fantasy.
As for suggestions on what to masturbate with.... I'm going to leave that to a female moderator her, or others to respond to.
Normally, I'd suggest reading "Sex for One" by Betty Dotson, but I'm not sure a person of your age can find the book or check it out from a library.
Good luck.
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