Straight male imagining himself as girl while masturbating. Need help.

its normal trust me. when your a teen(like me too) your hormones are wayyy off and sometimes you get turned on to things that you usually wouldnt find attractive. it doesnt mean you couldnt have sex, it just means thats what turns you on. and i know the feeling of being turned on and just thinking about anything you can think of to get you off, then after you feel guilty and grossed out. thats normal to, its just you fantasizing. i am a teenage girl and sometimes i think about a guy friend i have and act like we are having sex(i know its kinda wierd) but it works, i feel guilty sometimes after just because i know we are just friends and i a had not have been turned on, i would have never felt that way about him. so, its all good. most teens(guys and girls) masturbate and get turned on to some weird things. its just because of your sex drive and how active it is, and how your hormones are. your normal dont worry :)

You're just exploring your sexuality. It's completely normal. People need to lighten up about what is 'wrong' and 'right'. There is no moral question here, as long as you are harming no-one then it's all good. Relax and enjoy it. At 14 you have probably not become adult enough to know who or what you really are, and you are finding out.

What is more worrying is that you obviously think it is 'wrong' to be gay. That's not the case. You are what you are. No one sexuality or gender expression is any 'better' than any other.

Your description of your behaviour points to two possible scenarios, an exploration of submissive homosexuality, and and exploration of yourself as a girl--bear in mind these may both be true. So you are exploring both your sexuality (how you like to have sex) and your gender identity (how you see yourself.)

Many transgendered women describe similar experiences on their journey and you should consider this carefully. If you feel that you are uncomfortable in the male body you are growing into then you should find out as much as you can as soon as you can. There is a great deal of information online these days.

The likelihood is that this is just an exploratory phase you are going through, but it may not be and in that case please accept what your body and mind is telling you rather than attempting to repress it. There's plenty of support available now for any possible life journey.

This is NOT normal. 

Let me explain why:

The key thing you mention is that as soon as you cum, you feel disgusted with yourself. In addition, you mention that you don't feel like you could be homosexual.

This is not a hormonal issue whatsoever.

You have been masturbating since you were 12 years old. 

Because of the combination of all these variables, I believe your situation could be porn induced. The way this works is:

Your brain has a pleasure and reward chemical called "dopamine." When you look at porn excessively at a young age before you have the chance to be sexually active with real women, the dopamine mechanism gets all messed up. Eventually it gets to the point where the only thing that turns you on is crazy unnatural sexual imagery. 

The answer to this problem is to abstain from porn and masturbation until the symptoms are gone and real women start turning you on. Usually for most people it takes about 3 months.

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google "autogynephilia" and read the articles which you find. the more articles you read the more you will understand.

It's normal dude, we're young.. I'm straight too and we both feel the same way... Just enjoy it while you're still young if that makes you happy. I also masturbate on futanari.. haha I enjoyed it.. I feel that since i was 8 but soon when we grow older and became adult.. i believe we can overcome it and be mature :)
 

I hope this message gets to you because it's been a while since your question.

First off there is a whole lot of women who would think that's erotic and that are dominant. It all depends on how dominated you want to be or what turns you on. What you imagine is vey normal but most guys won't admit what they fantasize about.

Remember that what you do in your own bedroom is your business and there are no definate rules you have to live by. You're totally normal!

Look up donination porn, cuckhold and try to pinpoint what group you fall into. I would personally keep this information about your preferences to yourself for now but once your out of the evil hands of high school and away from idiots you feel will judge you (because they may just to be ass holes ) a whole new world will open up.

Then you can connect with the peoole in your sexual group and have a great sex life as an adult. Don't live your life thinking there is some "normal" way you have live or some secret you have to keep from your partner. There isn't. You just have to look in the right places to find someone that sexually suits you and I guarantee you they are there!!! I'm female... i know!

Young man, you feel disgust because your feelings are at war with peer pressure. Engaging in one kind of pleasure or another does not make you "gay." It just means you have discovered yet another amazing way of feeling pleasure. You are trapped between your feelings and the BS you get from peer pressure, which leads you to believe what you're doing is wrong or dirty. Remember, your sex life is nobody's damn business. Go out and test reality. Find a sympathetic partner, a teen like yourself who's experimenting or an experienced older male. No one but you has to know what you do. Although I've had a fulfilling straight-sex life, I have also cultivated some very rewarding sexual relationships with men. I also fantasize about being a girl/woman, having romantic, eager receptive sex with a hot gay bear or a silverdaddy or a big black man. I imagine kissing and making out and tasting all the sexual dishes on the buffet table. Most of all, I fantasize about taking my fantasy lover in the missionary position. I spread my legs for him and moan and whisper encouragement and hold his rocking hips and then thrill to imagine his orgasm and cumming inside me. Sometimes I even find straight sex porn and imagine I'm the girl/woman giving into the man! Stop suffering and start enjoying who you are. As Dan Savage says, it only gets better!

AnyonymousLSB252671 I m having the same problem can i contact to you.??

same kind of issue bro, i am 22. why this is happenning? i hate this life and planning for suicide is there any solution?