I love being on top .. I like being in control. I like him looking and I look when he's on top but just don't get why All the sudden got painful as soon as he entered. Wasn't painful when he was on top and last night was first time feeling tremendous pain we I got on top. ???
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I love being on top .. I like being in control. I like him looking and I look when he's on top but just don't get why All the sudden got painful as soon as he entered. Wasn't painful when he was on top and last night was first time feeling tremendous pain when I got on top. ???
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OMG ME TOO !!! It feels good when I'm leaning forward on him, and he goes in me. But when I sit on top, kinda leaned back, trying to work it, going back and forth, it HURTS soo bad. Lol but my man is kinda big too...guess I gotta get used to it. Fast. Lol
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Ask her if it hurts inside of her (like you're filling her up too much) or if her hips hurt (like stretching a muscle in the thigh). If it's the latter, then that's it. She's pulling a muscle in her upper legs when she bends over you. It happens to me too. I'd have her stretch the muscles she thinks are hurting. That's what I'm doing.
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I use to experience a lot of pain when I was on top which caused me to see my obgyn and it turns out I had a cyst that was causing the pain. I have since had it removed and I no longer have any pain during or after being on top!
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Same here! Had unconsummated marriage for a year and 4 months all because of an ovarian chocolate cyst! It hurts upon just penetration let along going deeper!
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My boyfriend is almost a foot taller than me so it is very awkward and painful for me to be on top. Medically speaking, a woman's vaginas is about 3-5 inches deep on average so it can be painful once the cervix is hit. Couple that with my tight hamstrings and little legs, I'm in all sorts of pain. Sometimes it's not so bad though. I think it just really depends on the angle of penetration and how comfortable she feels
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For myself, I grind against my partner when I'm ontop to stimulate my clitoris, and sometimes when I'm too aggressive my urethral gets sore from friction. It's bearable and not as noticeable for a while during sex but often it becomes painful and I'm unable to have sex for a few days after. When this technique is done right and not as aggressive the circulation of blood from arousal will stimulate simultaneously the clitoris and pelvic floor muscles and lead to an orgasm. This may be why your partner gets sore
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Same here! It hurts to be on top straight up but he slips out when I'm bent . I'm trying to figure out why it's such sharp pain
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Women are the more vulnerable species period..its how we are designed. Body image is important to women. We NEED to have that sense of attraction to keep our self esteem. Its so easy for men to put it out there and take control..its in their nature but for a woman..we arent like that..its more natural for a woman to submit their control and be the delicate, beautiful woman to the right man.. Not all women are submissive..but allot are. It depends on the man andm how i feel with him..each man brings out different things. Some I was comfortable to.take charge..others im not..what do you bring out in your woman?
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I WAY LATE HERE. But I have the same problem with being on top and the deep penitration hurting. HOWEVER, if I turn around (still on top, but my back facing his chest), I can be on top and absolutely love that position.
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The reason you could be feeling pain in cowgirl (facing) is because his penis is able to go just a little deeper than it can reverse cowgirl (facing away) because your butt will be serving on his stomach rather than a bit lower on his legs
Where about does the pain originate and is it only when he is fully inside you at the bottom of your stroke?
Where about does the pain originate and is it only when he is fully inside you at the bottom of your stroke?
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