I'm actually really quite confused with a situation that has come up with my girlfriend.
First of all, it took nearly two weeks for her to be comfortable with penetration, as her hyman was incredibly thick and every attempt at actual sex was extremely painful. We essentially just entered the vagina until she was no longer comfortable, pulled out, and repeated the process until she was comfortable with sex, ending each "session" when she said she couldn't anymore.
Now that she can have sex, though, I'm really thrown for a loop. We've had sex a few times, truthfully almost every day since with her as the instigator, and she isn't really enjoying it. She's described it as moments of pleasure, without me changing anything, and it's not that she's really getting a lot of pleasure out of it but it's like she "wants it to keep happening" while we're having sex.
I've never before had any issue with bringing a partner to a climax through vaginal sex, so it's pretty confusing to me. I can still make her orgasm through oral stimulation, and what I've been doing is alternating penetration and oral sex, making her climax before I do. I have been told by a friend that it took a while before she started to enjoy sex, and I'd like to know if there is anything I could be doing different?
She isn't comfortable with mounting as she's a small woman and I've been told I'm not a small man, so to speak.
First of all, it took nearly two weeks for her to be comfortable with penetration, as her hyman was incredibly thick and every attempt at actual sex was extremely painful. We essentially just entered the vagina until she was no longer comfortable, pulled out, and repeated the process until she was comfortable with sex, ending each "session" when she said she couldn't anymore.
Now that she can have sex, though, I'm really thrown for a loop. We've had sex a few times, truthfully almost every day since with her as the instigator, and she isn't really enjoying it. She's described it as moments of pleasure, without me changing anything, and it's not that she's really getting a lot of pleasure out of it but it's like she "wants it to keep happening" while we're having sex.
I've never before had any issue with bringing a partner to a climax through vaginal sex, so it's pretty confusing to me. I can still make her orgasm through oral stimulation, and what I've been doing is alternating penetration and oral sex, making her climax before I do. I have been told by a friend that it took a while before she started to enjoy sex, and I'd like to know if there is anything I could be doing different?
She isn't comfortable with mounting as she's a small woman and I've been told I'm not a small man, so to speak.
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Sorry for the shameless bump, but this is a topic that is bothering me rather acutely.
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Vaginal orgasms are rare. Most women need clitoral stimulation. There is nothing odd or strange about this.
Oral sex is good. You can also gently fun her clitoris while penetrating her or use a vibrator to provide even more stimulation. You might also try manual G-spot stimulation. Try other forms of simulation, as well. Lick her neck, play with her nipples, there's all sorts of stuff that can give pleasure.
There's much more to good sex than just penetration.
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Many women don't orgasm vaginally. Also, the memory of pain at first may be making her anxious during penetration. When she was a virgin and you two discovered there was pain when penetration was attempted, it would have been better for her to go to a gynecologist and let him/her surgically cut the hymen and totally take that out of the equation.
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I forgot. Also, women tell us we are not small a whole lot. Many times it is a little white lie and our special ladies want us to feel better about ouurselvs because they know how fragile we are about our equipment. Just as much as a woman is about her weight.
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