Ok, I am 19 years old, sexually active, and untill recently have never had pain during intercourse. More recently i was attempting to have intercourse and when he penitrated me it hurt so badly that i screamed. We tried going slower but at a certain point it hurt too badly. we stopped but the pain lasted for another 10 to 15 mins. This was so confusing to me, becasue ive never had problems before. I can even masturbate, but i have noticed ive been getting tighter and tighter, and after i penitrate i feel some pain but not enough to hurt and only a little. At first i thought it was tightness but it only really hurts when penitration is deeper. i was curious if maybe i brused something but i figured it would hurt all the time. my discharge is fairly normal, its whiter and thicker, but that happens to me sometimes. I dont know what to do. And i was wondering if anyone has an idea of what it might be, because i cant wait to go to the doctor to find out. I know this sounds weird but its almost like starting to have sex had a reverse effect on me, i get tighter instead of looser. please help. thank you very much.
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I don't exactly have an answer for you, but I just wanted to tell you that I'm having the same experience. After sex, my vagina will be sore around the lips (like they're swelled up) and there is a burning sensation inside the vagina that usually goes away before the lip soreness does.
I'm 20 and i've been having sex since 18. I have never had this happen until recently with my new partner. I though it had to do with the deep thrusting too because it doesn't hurt as much when there is not as much deep thrusting. I also thought it had to do with me getting tighter because I do kegal exercises to strengthen the PC muscles inside my vagina to help with stronger orgasms. When I squeeze those muscles a lot (usually involuntarily) during sex, it tends to hurt worse. Maybe that is causing the inner walls to chaff against his penis?
Well all I can tell you is that it is not due to pregnancy, or yeast infection for me at least. I did just get over a UTI but I didn't have sex for a week and a half to recover, and I had these problems long before that came up.
I just usually take a warm bath (without bubbles or salts) after sex to relieve the swelling and then apply ointment or unscented lotion to prevent dryness.
Just wanted to let you know you're not alone in your pain!
I'm 20 and i've been having sex since 18. I have never had this happen until recently with my new partner. I though it had to do with the deep thrusting too because it doesn't hurt as much when there is not as much deep thrusting. I also thought it had to do with me getting tighter because I do kegal exercises to strengthen the PC muscles inside my vagina to help with stronger orgasms. When I squeeze those muscles a lot (usually involuntarily) during sex, it tends to hurt worse. Maybe that is causing the inner walls to chaff against his penis?
Well all I can tell you is that it is not due to pregnancy, or yeast infection for me at least. I did just get over a UTI but I didn't have sex for a week and a half to recover, and I had these problems long before that came up.
I just usually take a warm bath (without bubbles or salts) after sex to relieve the swelling and then apply ointment or unscented lotion to prevent dryness.
Just wanted to let you know you're not alone in your pain!
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hey, I'm 20 and have been having the same problem. I used to have the burning sensation too but I read up about it and it seems to be caused by certain sex positions when the penis rubs the opening to the urethra. I'm still getting tighter to the point where it hurts for the first few minuets or more while I'm having sex, and I have trouble enjoying any deep penetration. My boyfriend thinks that he's gotten bigger but I don't think so. I've been having sex since i was 17 and I never had any trouble adjusting to a different partner. I started the pill about 11 months ago and i wonder if that might have some affect on it. I've also experienced a lot more dryness then I have ever had before. I used to be able to jump into bed but now I have to cum orally before i even think about trying penetration. And even after an 'O' penetration still hurts. I hope someone gives us an answer.
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I am 58, had a hysterectomy in 1983 and this past year I have been having painful intercourse with hubby and it feels like I have a constant yeast infection. My OBGYN said I did have a slight whitish discharge and when my doctor did a culture it came back that i had a bacterial infection and a yeast infection. Now I am trying Premarin vaginal cream to help balance the PH and see if it helps. Just started it recently so too soon to tell. Will let you know. Good luck to you all in finding the answer to this painful problem. I also use a lot of lubrication which does help lessen the pain if we do have intercourse. But it burns like crazy after for awhile. Hope I find an answer soon. :-(
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I'm abit overdue but i'll reply anyway, i'm a 17 year old male my partner is 18 and she's only recently been having these pains, with abit of foreplay and light penetration it doesn't seem to bother her but once i get deeper she usually asks to stop because the pain is that bad (Me being the selfless boyfriend i am, stopped :-P). Anywho, we saw a doctor about it a few weeks ago and it turns out she has PCOS (Cysts on her ovaries). It's not a serious condition but it has something to do with her periods being way over due (sometimes up to 4 months without them) and she had to get on the pill to regulate her period, it's certain it will be harder for us to have babies because of it. I don't know if this will help or not, but we're 99% sure it's the cysts on her ovaries that's causing the pain. Hope this helps
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Hi..Im 32 weeks pregnant and i have soreness during sex and directly after..My hubby and me went through a time period during this pregnancy that we wasnt having sex because i was ashamed of how big i was and constantly thinking about baby...so i assumed that was the reason for soreness ..never had this problem before..not sure what it could be...somebody pz help!!
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To: L
I am having the exact same problems as you. I have been having sex with same guy for two years and he is the only partner i have ever been with.
We used to have sex almost everyday, sometimes twice a day. Until one day my vagina would not let him go any deeper. I almost cried the pain was so bad.
We have tried water-based lubricated comdoms along with water based lube to see if the pain and burning was from an irritation from the condoms.
I have switch soap to Summer's Eve Vaginal wash for sensitive vaginas but that didn't
Help either.
We can do oral and fingering but when we go to have intercourse he can only go a few inches before the pain becomes to much to bear. If feels like astabbing
I am having the exact same problems as you. I have been having sex with same guy for two years and he is the only partner i have ever been with.
We used to have sex almost everyday, sometimes twice a day. Until one day my vagina would not let him go any deeper. I almost cried the pain was so bad.
We have tried water-based lubricated comdoms along with water based lube to see if the pain and burning was from an irritation from the condoms.
I have switch soap to Summer's Eve Vaginal wash for sensitive vaginas but that didn't
Help either.
We can do oral and fingering but when we go to have intercourse he can only go a few inches before the pain becomes to much to bear. If feels like astabbing
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To: L
I am having the exact same problems as you. I have been having sex with same guy for two years and he is the only partner i have ever been with.
We used to have sex almost everyday, sometimes twice a day. Until one day my vagina would not let him go any deeper. I almost cried the pain was so bad.
We have tried water-based lubricated comdoms along with water based lube to see if the pain and burning was from an irritation from the condoms.
I have switch soap to Summer's Eve Vaginal wash for sensitive vaginas but that didn't
Help either.
We can do oral and fingering but when we go to have intercourse he can only go a few inches before the pain becomes to much to bear. It feels like a stabbing/ripping pain. It also started to bleed one time when we tried to go deeper.
Even trying different positions hasen't
helped.
Have you found anything out?
I am having the exact same problems as you. I have been having sex with same guy for two years and he is the only partner i have ever been with.
We used to have sex almost everyday, sometimes twice a day. Until one day my vagina would not let him go any deeper. I almost cried the pain was so bad.
We have tried water-based lubricated comdoms along with water based lube to see if the pain and burning was from an irritation from the condoms.
I have switch soap to Summer's Eve Vaginal wash for sensitive vaginas but that didn't
Help either.
We can do oral and fingering but when we go to have intercourse he can only go a few inches before the pain becomes to much to bear. It feels like a stabbing/ripping pain. It also started to bleed one time when we tried to go deeper.
Even trying different positions hasen't
helped.
Have you found anything out?
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I am 46', and are experiencing all the same as you I had my hysterectomy 10 years ago .I ve been to the doctors constantly over the last tow years and even seen the top gynaecologist at the hospital and know one can help they all say there's nothing wrong madicaly ! Google vaganismus and see what you think ? It might help you I'm not as bad as I was but it hasn't gone away completely .Vagasil helps the burning the best for me .Your not alone .
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